What I meant about Flower is that OBVIOUSLY it's not gay at all, at the end of the movie we calls his son "Bambi" and he does fall in love with the female counterpart.
I think it would've been easier if it was a female (and fall in love for a male counterpart)... because it would have not been c
Anyway, let me tell you that the city I live in (Guadalajara, México) is one of the gayest cities in the world, just behind San Francisco
I just wanted to point out that maybe the development of the character (Flower) might have worked out better as a girl... no big deal
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