If you paid attention to the first movie and saw all the hints in it of the 'coming of The Avengers', then you would have understood the second one a lot more.Also, call me old fashioned but I still judge movies at face value. I don't believe you should have to read the book (or whatever the source material is), or watch some documentary/supplemental material to enjoy the movie. If the filmmaker is doing their job, you should get everything you need on screen, and be able to make a fair critique.
I know everyone has their own taste in movies, and has their own opinion, but when a director puts so much into a film, and the actors who are playing these roles are asked to make you believe that they are that character, you need to be more understanding of what is going on.
This movie is not truly a stand-alone film, although I think it is, to most people. It is a "lead-up" to a much more intricate force in the comic universe. If you paid close attention to it and understood the references that are made, and that paid attention to that last scene after the credits, it makes this film make a whole lot more sense.
You will understand that we are not getting an "Iron Man 3" next, we are getting "Thor" and "The Ultimate Avengers" first and then "Iron Man 3".
This film is like the other trilogies that have come before it, "Star Wars", "The Lord of the Rings", and is just filling in the gaps until we get the next chapter.
I would suggest that you have a movie night, and watch "Iron Man" clear through with no distractions, and then "Iron Man 2", watch for all the hints in each of these movies and pay close attention to the dialogue between characters and don't forget to watch each film until the last scene at the end of the credits, and see if you don't get a different opinion of this movie.
And, by the way, the supplement material on Disc Two of each of the Blu-ray versions of the film are not to fill in the gaps or try to make you understand what you have just seen, but rather to tease you into what is coming in the future, and expose the little hints that are shown in each of the films, to make you go back and watch them again.









