Episode 3: Revenge of the Gays, Are You One Too?

[ajmrowland]

Princesses in Bang order

Ariel
Jasmine
Belle
Cinderella
Mulan
Aurora
Giselle
Pocahontas
Tiane

[blackcauldron85]

Amy, I still stand by what I said because that was exactly what I was talking about. If you don't get it, okay, I don't think many people here will anyway.

Going back and rereading what you wrote, I now understand at least about saying "macho" or whatever and not "straight", since obviously sports and similar things aren't just for straight guys...

[Goliath]

I still don't understand what 'Princesses you'd like to fuck' has to do with a thread about being *gay*, but okay...

Oh, Mulan is not a princess, people!

Okay, let's pretend some of these girls *are* of legal age...

Ariel
Tiana
Jasmine
Belle
Eilonwy
Pocahontas
Cinderella
Aurora
Snow White

[ajmrowland]

^I guess somebody's fallen blindly for the beliefs of the masses.

[Goliath]

^I guess somebody's fallen blindly for the beliefs of the masses.

I literally don't understand a word of what you're trying to say...

[Avaitor]

Hmm, not bad. Would you consider adding Calla or Maid Marian in? I didn't even think about Eilonwy!

[Disney's Divinity]

Hmm, not bad. Would you consider adding Calla or Maid Marian in?

Umm....ew?

[ajmrowland]

^I guess somebody's fallen blindly for the beliefs of the masses.

I literally don't understand a word of what you're trying to say...

well.......nah, I just wont tell you.

[blackcauldron85]

It was directed at everyone. I didn't think I needed to elaborate, but if what you like, "gay" things and the same sex, and how you act and come off to other people, does not correlate at all (i.e. you do not seem gay at all), I find something odd about that.

Sorry, not to get hung up over this, but I can't sleep...

I think that maybe sometimes, especially if someone isn't out yet, then they may try to appear to be who they aren't to maybe make friends easier or to gain acceptance. I mean, for some people, it takes them a long time to come out and it scares them, since they don't want to be shunned. So I don't think that it's too far off saying that some people may hide what they like and what they like may not come off to other people...

I mean, some gay guys date women (I'm thinking of Lance Bass here, really), maybe because they want to fit in or maybe because they aren't sure if they're gay yet...

[slave2moonlight]

Ha, I just glanced in here because I was wondering what is discussed in this thread, and there are guys listing Disney girls they wanna "bang"? I'm very tempted to throw my list in, though I'd do the more gentlemanly list of Disney girls I want to DATE, ha. Seems a bit off topic though. Is there a thread for your top 10 (or more) Disney dreamdates? That'd be fun. And Goliath, rather than pretending they are "of age", when it comes to toons I just prefer to pretend the only rule is there are no rules, ha. Though there are a few faves I would prefer to be older, like Alice and Wendy. The theme park versions and art by Jab kinda hooked me on them.

[PeterPanfan]

Can you even really know if you're gay without having the experience of being with both a man and a woman? I mean... idk, I identify as straight but have only had girlfriends, so I guess I'm contradicting myself lol, but what do you all think?

[Flanger-Hanger]

Can you even really know if you're gay without having the experience of being with both a man and a woman?

Yes, because I know I've never been physically attracted to a member of the opposite sex.

[Disney Duster]

Well Amy, yes that's right, but I meant if there a gay guy who is out yet, and he doesn't seem gay at all in any way other than he is making out with dudes, I find that odd that it doesn't show up anywhere else in who he is, how he acts. That is all I meant.

PeterPanFan, Yes, you can know you are gay before you date any single person. Being gay is being attracted to the same sex. You do not have to date someone to do that. Before I dated any guys, I would just see guys I thought were cute, and there it was.

However...sometimes people do not find out until they date or do something romantic/sexual with someone of the same sex. I have heard of that, too.

[Goliath]

well.......nah, I just wont tell you.

Oh no, now you have to say! What is "the belief of the masses" and how have I "blindly fallen" for it? Come on, don't leave me curious like this!

Hmm, not bad. Would you consider adding Calla or Maid Marian in? I didn't even think about Eilonwy!

Maid Marian? Er... no. I'm not really into bestiality. And Calla? I guess not. She's much more a child in both appearance and behavior than the other Disney girls. Ariel and Aurora are only 16 years old, but look (much) older. Aurora could easily pass for 18. Both got married in the film, so they are considered to be adults (obviously due to the times in which the movies took place).

By the way, is Kida from Atlantis a princess?

And Goliath, rather than pretending they are "of age", when it comes to toons I just prefer to pretend the only rule is there are no rules, ha.

It's true, they are just cartoon characters, but it still leaves an 'icky' taste in my mouth.

[blackcauldron85]

Okay, this is almost leaning off-topic, but it is related to my other posts.

So, after this guy got hired, but before he started, my manager showed me his resume. I assumed that the guy would be in his early 30s, based on his resume, but he told me and a volunteer that he's 24... and today, we were in the office, and he was looking for something and came across his resume and asked if I had seen it. Now, I had told him "no", and that's a lie, and there's nothing I hate more than liars, so I feel horrible about that, but I told him "no", and he asked if I wanted to see it, and I said "sure". So I saw it, and yes, it still said the same thing (obviously), and I asked him about it, and he said that it was a typo. But 2 different lines have years on them that don't make sense if he's 24. And doing another Google search, he seems to be a few years older than what he is saying. I already have trust issues in general (it takes a lot for me to fully trust people), and it's not like I'm going to marry the guy, so it really doesn't matter too much, but we've become friends, and I know that he's not perfectly truthful. Confusing. But I feel pretty guilty about lying to him about seeing his resume, so maybe friend to friend I can apologize for that...? I don't want things to be awkward. Maybe work friendships aren't the best, haha, even though I have never had problems with work friendships before...

Ugh. He's still a really nice guy, though. And hot. I'm just perplexed. It's like he's hiding something. I don't want to make him feel uncomfortable at work. But I feel like I should apologize, so I'll continue my completely-honest-with-him streak...

*edit*

I wasn't dwelling on this, I promise, but he's too good of a worker to make upset and I don't want to risk him quitting (Idk if he even would), so maybe I shouldn't even bring the subject up any more? And from a site I saw online, he could be 29, so that's not even in his 30s yet...just wanted to clarify on that. But I really don't know. It's all just fishy. But, yeah, I don't want to jeopardize us working together, since he really is good at his job.

[Disney Duster]

Amy, where do you work?

And also, the more you become friends, and the closer you become friends, the more he will reveal to you and eventually become honest with you. But it may take a long, long, time.

You probably should not care about it so much, actually, even though you can't help it...try not to, is all I can say.

[Chernabog_Rocks]

To jump on the whole "straight acting" thing. My friend has said I'm straight acting, when I came out to her she was surprised (yet happy) because she had completely assumed I was straight and gave no indicators I'm gay.

Part of that is because I'm not a stereotypical flamboyant person. As well I do at times pass myself off as straight. Most of the time it's nodding and agreeing as to whether a woman is hot and generally anything on that subject.

It's just a defense mechanism for me, the latter. My family for the large part does not know and I don't want them to and if that means throwing them off by faking being staight from time to time then so be it. 90% of the time I'm generally myself as it is.

As I said, I had surprised my friend upon coming out and with her I wasn't trying to hide it, I was just waiting for the right time but without the worry of being judged. So even then, I suspect it's my lack of flamboyance that makes me appear straight even if I don't make comments to be ambiguous (sp).

Anways. That's just my little bit in an attempt to steer things on track.

[Khonnor]

didn't see this posted yet, but the original blue ranger has finally come out of the closet and admitted he left the show for "being called a fa**ot" one too many times.

Producers claim he was a pain to work with however and left because he wanted more money and di'dn't get it.

HeAVY.

[blackcauldron85]

where do you work?

At a store. I'm the assistant manager & he's my assistant.

And also, the more you become friends, and the closer you become friends, the more he will reveal to you and eventually become honest with you. But it may take a long, long, time.

You probably should not care about it so much, actually, even though you can't help it...try not to, is all I can say.

I know. I know. And I know. We carpool, and so I think on the ride to work tomorrow, I'll at least apologize for lying to him, even if it was the tiniest of lies. I need to clear my conscious. Hopefully he'll just accept that and not get into defensive mode or anything...

It's just a defense mechanism for me, the latter. My family for the large part does not know and I don't want them to and if that means throwing them off by faking being staight from time to time then so be it.

Thanks for saying that. See, I bet that so many people are deceptive about that part of them. I think that everyone is probably somewhat deceptive about something...I mean, as a straight girl, I can't necessarily relate about hiding my sexuality, but if my family knew about my tattoos...I don't even know, and I don't want to know, so as far as hiding a part of you for fear of letting someone down and hearing crap about it, then I totally get it. And as you had said, you're still you- it's not like faking that part of you changes who you are at all.

[Margos]

Margos...usually when you talk about who you want to bang, that isn't the same as who you would fall in love with for who they are, just saying.

But sex is way more fun when you love someone. I wouldn't sleep with Aurora, even though she is beautiful, because then in the morning I would have to listen to her prattle on like an idiot. Who wants that?

Anyway, my list was taken from the Disney Princess Franchise, but if people are being weird with the definition of the term "princess," then I would put Eilonwy below Snow White (I think she's even younger! UGH!) and Kida fairly high, but I'm not really sure where. Not as high as Belle, but above Cinderella. IDK, somwhere in there.

But if we're now talking about all Disney females... I'd have to put Jessica at the top of my list. Yeah, yeah, I know, pretty common choice. But still.

And Goliath, it depends who you talk to how related this is. In your case, this little game is the exact opposite of being related to a thread about being gay. In mine, it makes perfect sense, and is very related.