Nandor and Gumby17 that's not all that pathetic at all. I promised myself that i want to have a valentine on valentine's day. I've never actually recieved a valentine other that in grade school when everyone had to give you one. not even from my family, except for my mom once if i'm remembering correctly. I just don't want to hate that day anymore, lol.
Wow I came out to three people in the last week-buisy buisy boy! Me and my mom were jst watcging Brothers and Sisters and Scotty and Kevin started making-out (sooooooooo hot!) and my mom was all "EEEEWWWWWWWWWWW!" so I was all "mom you need to get over it." and she was all "oh I hope you know that I accept you for who you are." so I guess that's one less person I need to come out to right haha!
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gumby17 wrote:Wow I came out to three people in the last week-busy busy boy! Me and my mom were jst watcging Brothers and Sisters and Scotty and Kevin started making-out (sooooooooo hot!) and my mom was all "EEEEWWWWWWWWWWW!" so I was all "mom you need to get over it." and she was all "oh I hope you know that I accept you for who you are." so I guess that's one less person I need to come out to right haha!
Your mom sounded immature at the beginning. I think my parents have long suspected my bisexuality, but were I to actually mention it, I think I would be banned from contact with my family. They are very conservative. My father wouldn't want me banned, but he listens to everything my mother says. I've told every person I've been with that we are going to be equals in our relationship, because I don't want a relationship like my parents have.
Jack Skellington wrote:Prudy, I'd never have the heart to tell my parents, my friends, and the people that I love that I'm bi ! I think everyone would hate me !
That must really suck. I have my fraternity which provides me with a pretty strong support system with every choice i make. To me right now it doesn't matter what my family thinks, but thankfully as far as my homosexuality goes their opinion of me never changed.
I live a pretty fair distance from my family, and my closest friends know. Most of my sorority sisters know, as well. Plus, I'm a member of an alliance.
I think it's kind of shocking how well going greek in college can help you feel better about your sexuality. I know a lot of gay guys on my campus who have gone greek, and they seem to be the ones who are the best composed. The lesbians on the other hand don't seem to go greek, which is something i find interesting... maybe my school is just an exception.
Or maybe I'm a very untypical girl. I'll go with the latter, as most sorority girls I know are straight and I simply have unusual preferences to begin with.
WOW, what a thread lol.
Me, I don't label myself. I guess you can say I go with the flow hahaha.
I hate the word Bisexual too lol.
I also, do not hate anyone. I have been over weight most of my life and took the challenge to lose weight and I lost over 90 pounds. I did keep posts here I believe. And being a so called "fat person" really hurts to when people are cruel to you.
Ok did that make sense LOL.
I think I get what you're saying Matt. If I do then I'm kind of the same way.
Something that I hate is when people introduce me as their gay friend. I'm kind of left wondering if that's all I am. Another one is "Hey this is my friend, by the way he's gay". I just like to think that there is more that make me who I am other than my sexuality. I try not to mention that I'm gay or make a lot of show out of it most of the time. It's not that I'm hiding it away or anything, if someone asks I'll tell them, but I want people to see more in me than just a gay guy. As a result I find I have a lot more straight friends than most of gay friends do. I guess I make straight guys feel more comfortable.
singerguy04 wrote:I think I get what you're saying Matt. If I do then I'm kind of the same way.
Something that I hate is when people introduce me as their gay friend. I'm kind of left wondering if that's all I am. Another one is "Hey this is my friend, by the way he's gay". I just like to think that there is more that make me who I am other than my sexuality. I try not to mention that I'm gay or make a lot of show out of it most of the time. It's not that I'm hiding it away or anything, if someone asks I'll tell them, but I want people to see more in me than just a gay guy. As a result I find I have a lot more straight friends than most of gay friends do. I guess I make straight guys feel more comfortable.
Kind of sorta you got what I was saying lol.
But I agree totally what you were saying as well.
I just feel it's up to the person and how they feel to do what they gotta do you know?
I still believe in faithful relationships and keeping trust and all that. That is so important in a relationship, guy or girl. Sleeping around isn't cool.