My Dad Died - He Was Only 49 - I'm Only 14

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I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.

I lost my Dad when I was only 9. He died of a heart attack. Then, last month I lost my Mom and I'm only 29.

It's really hard, but I know you'll find the strength to go on. He will always live in your memories.
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I'm so sorry man. My sympathies to you and your family.
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Losing a loved one is a sad, sad thing, but it must be especially hard to lose a father when he is so young, and you are so young. Also, it's even harder that things were getting better before they got worse.

I made a prayer for you, that you will make it through this a little easier with God's help, and become happy again. While losing you father is sad, some happy things will come your way. Gummi Bears is finally coming to DVD, and it will at least be a happy distraction, if you want one. You're father would want you to be happy and enjoy Gummi Bears, right? So enjoy it. Be happy. If you still feel sad, that's fine, but try to be happy for your father. He wouldn't want you to dwell on his death. He loves you, and wants you to be happy.
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Hi Jake,

I'm so sorry about your father. This is where your faith will pull you through. Chin up hun, we're rooting for you here.
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Sorry to hear about your dad, man. I'm 14 as well and I can't even picture losing either of my parents...it scares me. :cry:
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I am sorry Jake, I have had a loss in the past 3 days, my 27 year old brother in law died on tuesday, actully 2 loses because me and the wife are also getting a divorce
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Oh jamminjake, I'm so sorry for you. I lost my mother a little over 5 years ago, when I was 13. She died of cardiac heart failure. So I can fully empathize with you. I'll say a little prayer for you tonight, OK?

As all the others have said, the pain will pass. Just give it some time. All is not lost.
memnv wrote:actully 2 loses because me and the wife are also getting a divorce
That is SO sad! I'm not sure, but I think you even posted pictures of yourself and your wife and the "Put your Name with a Face Thread". I do wish it wouldn't happen. (I knew a couple once who were going to divorce and everything. They then thought it out, and changed their minds, and they're now living happily with a 4 year old son). I'm sure you love your wife very much and I sincerely hope your situation will resolve itself.
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memnv wrote:actully 2 loses because me and the wife are also getting a divorce
That is SO sad! I'm not sure, but I think you even posted pictures of yourself and your wife and the "Put your Name with a Face Thread". I do wish it wouldn't happen. (I knew a couple once who were going to divorce and everything. They then thought it out, and changed their minds, and they're now living happily with a 4 year old son). I'm sure you love your wife very much and I sincerely hope your situation will resolve itself.
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