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Is that a serious question? Why would you ask that, except to say you are somewhat confused about what it means. We both know what this situation is, no 7-year old can return the "love" of an adult, and for asking me that, seriously, you are either insulting my intelligence or are very sheltered. I hope you were asking that non-seriously. That's like asking, "you think people are capable of breathing right(?)"; everyone who knows what's going on has to answer the same way or there's something wrong with them. So if you meant that question to be even the slightest bit serious and you still have it, rephrase it.Aladdin from Agrabah wrote:but what happens when an adult tells you that he's in love with a 7-year old boy?
That - I can agree with.Aladdin from Agrabah wrote:So love is not a sin, but the question is what do we call love??? Maybe many more meanings are hiding behind the thing we so easily call love. Maybe things are a LOT more more more complicated.
The absolute most hypocritical view related to abortion is that taking a human life is any worse or more serious than that of an animal. Especially since humans cause the most damage / bring on the most destruction, and therefore, are a much higher threat to the environment via overpopulation. But when animals overpopulate, it's okay to hunt, shoot, and kill them. I have already completely come to terms with my view on eating meat. It's a tradition with people who like meat, the meat I eat doesn't necessarily have to come from an overpopulated species or area of land. So when a human embryo is aborted, there is no cause for me to say - wait, ho - hey, that's not okay, that's much worse than shooting an animal with survival skills and a working-sense of it's own instinctive behaviors. That's why overall, I consider the termination of embryos and fetai (spell?) to be a private matter. If it wasn't the mother's decision, via- miscarriage, it's sad or tragic. But still, no one should take the right away from the woman, for any reason. That is one of life's most basic, elemental truths. Since we can't vote on forcing men to have or not have vasectomies, we can't force women to not have abortions. It's as simple as that - you don't want someone telling you what you have to do with your body. And that right can never EVER be taken away. No argument, no discussion - period. And no pro-life anything can mess with that. Some things must always be considered on some level sacred. This is that.Escapay wrote:I'm against abortion, for the simple fact that life is life, and taking life is a sin (and yet I eat meat...so I guess I'm a hypocritical Catholic like everyone says we are...)
I'm against contraception because I believe sex is a sacred and passionate act of love that should be shared between two people who are mature enough and willing enough to own up to the consequences (pregnancy).
So, I'm guessing you don't believe a fetus is a living person that should not be killed, either? It's true that a woman has a right to do what she wants with her body...but I believe that once she has a fetus inside her, that fetus is a person, and even though having the baby will stretch out the place on a woman's body that a baby comes out of, that's about it, other than getting fat and possibly getting stretchmarks from being pregnant. But I believe the fetus is a person, and it shouldn't be killed because it is a person. A woman has rights, but the right to LIVE overrides the right to SPARE YOURSELF OF A FAT BELLY.Lazario wrote:I consider the termination of embryos and fetai (spell?) to be a private matter. If it wasn't the mother's decision, via- miscarriage, it's sad or tragic. But still, no one should take the right away from the woman, for any reason. That is one of life's most basic, elemental truths. Since we can't vote on forcing men to have or not have vasectomies, we can't force women to not have abortions. It's as simple as that - you don't want someone telling you what you have to do with your body. And that right can never EVER be taken away. No argument, no discussion - period. And no pro-life anything can mess with that. Some things must always be considered on some level sacred. This is that.

I was just trying to point out that, what through our eyes is extremely sick and abnormal, through a sick person's eyes it seems to be love, even if it's only from his side.Lazario wrote:Is that a serious question? Why would you ask that, except to say you are somewhat confused about what it means. We both know what this situation is, no 7-year old can return the "love" of an adult, and for asking me that, seriously, you are either insulting my intelligence or are very sheltered. I hope you were asking that non-seriously. That's like asking, "you think people are capable of breathing right(?)"; everyone who knows what's going on has to answer the same way or there's something wrong with them. So if you meant that question to be even the slightest bit serious and you still have it, rephrase it.
I agree, we'll all have our views on abortion, but everytime we venture into a topic like that, people argue, the thread gets locked and it doesn't result in anything constructive.Disney-Fan wrote:Hey guys, I know this is a discussion and all, but can we please not go into abortion.
I agree with both of you. I don't wanna see some the start of a large unending debate, that would become way off topic.Enchantress wrote:I agree, we'll all have our views on abortion, but everytime we venture into a topic like that, people argue, the thread gets locked and it doesn't result in anything constructive.Disney-Fan wrote:Hey guys, I know this is a discussion and all, but can we please not go into abortion.
There's no "debate"ing with me on this subject. Just so you know. I also refuse personally to take this topic off-topic. My opinions on this subject have been well documented on at least 2 other topics, wherever they may be.Disney Duster wrote:I thoroughly enjoy the discussions in this thread, and welcome anyone to open my mind and debate with me.
Lol, you call what we have here a civilization? I'd say we're still at least a few millenia away from that lofty status. On topic with what you're saying though (and please note I do agree with you on the legality of abortions), people holding the opposite viewpoint would simply point out the contradiction when you said this...Lazario wrote:It's truly that simple. You can disagree all you want, but we can't take anyone's right to their own body away from them. Abortion must for the sake of civilization always remain legal.
... that abortion is, in essence "making another person's decision for them" which, in this case, would be making the child's decision not to exist; which of course his or her future self may or may not go in for.Lazario wrote:I'll just say, in a nutshell, that the only issue with abortion is that it's never okay to make a person's decision for them or to take that right away. Never. Regardless of personal beliefs, which are really only supposed to affect each person's own singular course of action.
). But my family has never been very religious, at all. Not even my grandparents were very religious, nor were my last-living grandfather's (passed away back in, I would say, '99) girlfriends (one of which married him in the very early '90s) very religious. That I know of. So that means I don't even know what my parents' religions are.
Give me a f**king break. Our forefathers came here to have freedom from the oppresion of having their religion chosen for them. Something you seem to be pushing for pretty hard. If Laz or anyone else chooses not to believe what you believe, leave them alone for Christ's sake. THAT IS WHY OUR FOREFATHERS FOUNDED AMERICA, to be free to believe what they CHOOSE TO BELIEVE and NOT BE HARASSED ABOUT IT.Spongebob Squarepants wrote: Some people on here I just don't understand who live in this country. I often wonder what our fore fathers would think if they could see the U.S. now. They came over here to have Christianity without being ruled without a king. They went through hardships for this country. How do you think America started? On Christianity! If you read that Lazario,it probably doesn't apply to you anyways since you don't like the history of this country..
Me, I'm a mutt. Born & baptized Catholic, brought up half Lutheran and half Jewish. Theologically I try to be very open-minded, although I find that the individuals in charge of organized religion have done much more to tear the world apart than to bring us together. Just don't go dragging American history into it.I do not find in our particular superstition of Christianity one redeeming feature.....Millions of innocent men, women and children, since the introduction of Christianity, have been burned, tortured, fined and imprisoned. What has been the effect of this coercion? To make half the world fools and half hypocrites; to support roguery and error all over the world.