Siren wrote:The problem with these fad diets is they work great...till you get off the diet. Unless you make a conscious effort to make lifestyle changes, no diet, no matter what actor, doctor, or average joe is gonna work. Simply exercising and eating right are all you need. Portion control is important, but I don't believe in cutting out certain foods all together. Eating in moderation is a good rule of thumb. For instance, instead of having a 3 scoop sundae with all the trimmings, have one scoop with one topping. You will often discover, that is all your craving needed. I know when I am craving chocolate, if I grab a fat free Jello chocolate pudding, I am as satisfied with that as I would have been with a brownie sundae.
I agree 100% with this, Siren.
I've never, and I mean NEVER, believed in diets because all they do is eliminate an essential nutrient from the pyramid of foods. I have a friend who used to do all sorts of diets throughout his life. It got to the point where I LAUGHED in his face because his anxiety over it was crazy. At the time, he was doing a diet which eliminates corn. Corn, if I am not mistaken, has sugar. At the moment his body was craving sugar because he was completely eliminating it from his diet. So when he saw chocolate cake he went nuts because his body was craving it, but he was fighting it.
It got so bad that one time, his mother made him and his friends chocolate cake. His refusal to eat it was so bad that he FORCED me to eat it (think of the Tina and Ike cake incident, except less violent and overdramatic). Of course, I don't eat the things I am forced to eat, so while the cake was wasted I didn't let him control me because of his own beliefs.
And all of this is because he has this really, really big fear that he will die young or get really, really morbidly obese like his father.
And the bigger irony is that I don't do diets, I don't do exercise, the only thing I do is acupuncture and chinese herbs, and right now I weigh LESS than him. I am at 240 pounds while he is nearing the 300 pound range.
It all depends on the mentality. You can lose weight, you can be healthy, and you can be happy when doing all of this. But if you let fear, insecurity, paranoia and anxiety rule over you its going to get worse.
Besides, having a healthy lifestyles doesn't extend your life. True, you may die at an older age of natural causes, but that doesn't stop you from suffering cancer, AIDS, tumors, heart attacks, brain damages and various accidents that can mean death.
I'm not saying to not try and live a healthy lifestyle. What I am saying is that to do it with an open mind, see an expert about it, have fun with it and don't let your fears and insecurities be the main reason for the weight loss.