How women dress & the consequences of their choices

[Disney Guru]

Dear Disney Enthusiasts,

I'll admit that I am jealous, but I'll also admit that integrity is sometimes important, too.

I also know that some women are not naturally BLESSED with the ability to "get some" (at least not all of the time, anyway, due to social, medical, physical, financial, etc., factors), and I can understand why they might be bitter. If the teases and the hip-swingers had to trade places with THEM, then THEY (the girls who are always getting attention) might be whining, TOO, I'm shurr.

I'm also wondering how half of the teasing women would feel if their own daughters were the ones who grew up to be socially rejected, etc. I wonder if these women would just say "Tease as best you can! If Mother was the ultimate PT of [fill in the decade], then YOU can at LEAST TRY to match her popularity with those horny, stupid boys!", or if they'd say, "Oh, God! I'm a failure as a mother!", or if they'd say "I was a tease, but, you know, teasing isn't EVERYTHING."

I also wonder if the men who are in favor of the "trash-talkin', cheap-dressin' Feminists" because of how much skin they're showing would feel as free and easy if their (the men's) DAUGHTERS were dressing that way someday. Testosterone tends to be lower, with regards to cheap turn-ons, and stronger, with regards to protection, whenever a horny guy suddenly has a daughter, and what a good (and a slightly bitter) laugh the womenfolk get THEN, recalling the irony that's present in a situation wherein the men who just HAD to bang THEM (when THEY were just young innocents) cannot BEAR the idea of some horndog banging their DAUGHTERS!

Now, why can't more people just be slightly wiser, and slightly more fair, when they are slightly younger than 35, or at least give everybody a fair chance to be a proper Slut/ Tease/ Wet Tee-Shirt Contest Princess/ Pole-Dancing Diva of the Year?

I believe that EVERY girl/ woman deserves to hear the following phrases at least ONCE during her life: "She's innocent.", "She's just hormonal!", "What perky boobs!", "Hey, Lolita!", You are passionate/ orgasmic enough to shatter glass!", " You are physically, emotionally, mentally, and socially perfect, and your perfection is scientifically proven!", "You are a goddess!", "It's just that time of the month!", "You are the perfect wife and mother!", "You ALWAYS know EVERYTHING that's going to happen BEFORE it happens! You have PERFECT Feminine Intuition!", "You are delicate!", "Your tummy is perfectly pudgy, and your belly button is sexy!", "You are my Princess!", "You have the most even temper of anybody that I've ever met!", "She can really throw 'em back!" (Referring to drinks), "Your legs go on for forever!", "You're so squeezable!", "She's totally wet n' wild!", "You're soft, dreamy, and perfect!", "She's like the princess who was as wise as she was beautiful!", "She can do any physical activity without EVER damaging her physical perfection!", "She can crank 'em out like a factory, and yet, she never looses her perfect, youthful shape!" (with regards to having babies), "She just faints into his arms!", "She never seems to age!" (Okay, okay, bring on the Mother Gothel jokes! I don't care!), "Whenever she bends any joint, there's no bony aspect to the bend! It's as though she's made of dough!" (Look at Natalie Wood, and you'll see what I mean!), "I'd die, kill, and self-destruct for you! You are the Goddess whom I worship!", "You make the shower a transcendental place!", "She's unstoppably orgasmic, and erotically intense!", "She has the tiniest feet!", "She's beauty, perfect temperment, intelligence, and female sexuality personified, all encased within an hourglass-shaped bottle of erotic perfume!", and more, more, MORE! Those are the phrases that I wish that those who have known me, know me, and will know me (personally) would say to/ about ME, anyway.

I suppose that I have thus unmasked my true, conflicted ideas about this entire topic, but I don't mind admitting that I am as ironic a person as any.

Thank you in advance for your replies.

I wasn't trying to be mean or any such thing with my intial post but I will say this much. I feel the same way you do in some ways i'm not exactly a dog but when I see all of my friends in relationships being chased it seems and the past couple years I'm lucky to get past the first date it does hurt. But you have to come to the point where your comfortable with yourself, stop being such a pessimist. Stop roasting others simply because your jealous. If your able to do that you'll be much happier if not every-time you see something happen you'll go back into the woe is me mode. It is something I am trying to work on as well.

[Sotiris]

I've said this before and I'll say it again: You can't judge someone by simply the way they dress. The way one dresses does not always correlate to a specific type of behavior. You need to set your assumptions aside, not generalise and judge someone by their behavior or personality on a one-by-one basis.

[Jackoleen]

Dear Disney Enthusiasts,

XXX!

[ajmrowland]

teens are *not* little and *not* children. they may not be adults either but the sooner people.........understand that, the better.

[Super Aurora]

teens are *not* little and *not* children. they may not be adults either.

But they are stupid.

[ajmrowland]

no more stupid than anyone else.