After I respond to the following quotes, I'll tell my adventure story!
Ryan wrote:When I traded things in at FYE 3 days ago they asked me if I wanted to be paid in cash or store credit and that I would get 25% more if I chose store credit. Maybe that's a new thing since the last time you've been there? The two Kellly Clarkson albums (I assume you're talking about "My December" and "All I Ever Wanted"?) are definitely worth it.
Yeah, yesterday they asked. It must be new- I hadn't sold there in a long time. I chose store credit. And, yep, those are the 2 albums! They were too expensive yesterday for me.
Ryan wrote:If you have an album that's scratched and skips and the scratch isn't too deep or noticeable you can try trading it in. Although FYE might not always accept such scratched discs, they always clean off and resurface the discs before reselling them, or at least that's what it seems like to me.
No, the ones that aren't badly scratched I still use, but the ones that are unplayable, or are partly unplayable, are the ones I need to replace. For most of them, I've been just playing my CD-R copy, but I'd still like to accumulate them. I don't have too many left, since I replaced some yesterday.
Ryan wrote:That's why I always buy physical copies of an album I want, because if I ever get tired of them I can make some money off of it:)
That's why you're smart.

I do prefer having the physical copy, and all my favorite albums I have the physical copy of (I guess that's another reason why I want to rebuy my scratched CDs that don't play that I've been using the CD-R copies of).
Ryan wrote:I would imagine they probably do, back by their blank CDs and DVDs, but they might be more expensive than somewhere else. I was actually in Marshall's the other night and I saw a big bundle of 50 slim jewel cases for $9.99 and I thought that was pretty reasonable.
Heck yes that's reasonable- too bad I didn't read this before I went shopping...!
Ryan wrote:Haha, well usually you can get the albums relatively cheap the first week they are out. Target usually has first-week albums on sale for $9.98, right? So basically the cheapest way to get them would be either to get the album the first week it's out or wait a few weeks to a month and get it used.
Yeah, if it's an album I really want, I tend to buy it in the first week (like, if it's by one of my non-top-5 favorites), apparently not if it's Kelly Clarkson, though, haha, but I really do like her- I'm just behind! And now I'm not going to just randomly buy albums.
What I decided was to stick with certain albums. I kept some albums by artists who I have sold or am selling others of, but some albums that I do quite enjoy even if I don't listen to their other music much I did keep.
Ryan wrote:Yeah, definitely ask for gift cards to places like Target and Wal Mart (if you're a Wal Mart shopper, I don't really frequent the Wal Mart up here because it smells and really strange and sketchy people hang out there).
I find Walmart's CDs and DVDs to be a little more expensive than other places, ironically, but I do enjoy Walmart for everything else. I was thinking in the car yesterday- I could tell people that even if it's a $5 gift card (because if people get you non-gift card things you didn't ask for, it could be because a) they think you'll like it, and b) they got it really cheap, at least it'll be $5 well-spent. But I also don't want to hurt anyone's feelings about prior gifts. I don't have a green thumb, though, so the flower bulb kit from my aunt & uncle just wasn't a practical gift, but they didn't know that. I'm an honest person- I can tell them. And I was thinking that we should whip out the lazy susan on Thanksgiving. Sounds good.
Ryan wrote:I know, but I feel like it's kind of a hassle because there's hardly any "rewards", just the occasional $5 off coupon and a few 10% off coupons. $5 and 10% aren't rewards in my book!
I don't even carry my card with me- I just give them my phone number. It is painless. If you shop at Best Buy, there's no reason not to participate- it's free! I don't get many of the coupons, especially now that I shop for new CDs and DVDs mostly at Target, but it isn't painless. And with all the jewel cases I bought yesterday, I will be getting a $5 coupon soon, I think.
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Okay, storytime. I had decided that I have some albums that I just barely listen to. Sure, I like some of them, but I hardly listen to them. So for the decent-looking ones (scratch-wise), I scrounged around as many jewel cases as I could (since I was keeping my CDs in CD wallets), and for the ones I had the inserts for (lyric book/back cover), I pieced them all together. I drove to CD Warehouse 2 days ago, and as I think I wrote, the CD Warehouse near me closed. I drove to the mall down the street yesterday with 2 bags of CDs, and FYE was closed! It was just open the last time I was at the mall, which was a few weeks ago! I decided to drive to the mall that is about 30 minutes away, and that FYE was open. I sold $32.51 worth of CDs: Weezer- Green Album ($2.50), Ashley Tisdale- Guilty Pleasure ($6.25)- I did just buy that album, but it's not as good as I was hoping for. It's not bad, but it's not great. She's one of the artists I'm boderline with; Mariah Carey- Butterfly ($1.25)- don't get mad, Nick! That album has some great songs, but I don't care about most of the songs; Jewel- Pieces of You ($1.25)- again, some great songs, and this album I was borderline on, but my criteria is, if it's not one I regularly reach for on car rides, I'm going to sell it; Lit- A Place in the Sun ($1.25)- a great album, but I don't listen to it nearly as often as other albums; Linkin Park- Hybrid Theory ($5.63 my receipt says, but I thought the register said $4.50?)- I haven't listened to them much since I was 18...their music helped me immensely during that time period, but I'm not in that sad place anymore!; Mariah Carey- The Emancipation of Mimi ($2.50 my receipt says, but I thought the register said $2?)- I never gave this much of a chance, but it has a couple good ballads...this wasn't the deluxe edition, so "Don't Forget About Us" (or is it "We Belong Together"?) I had downloaded, and I'm trying to think if I had downloaded any other songs from it prior to getting it (I got the album either free or for $1, so I made money on it); Brandy- Never Say Never ($1.25 my receipt says- I see no $1 listings on my receipt, so they have me like 25 cents extra on everything for some reason...tax?)- a great album, but again, I hardly listen to it; Mariah Carey- Rainbow ($1.25)- I don't hate Mariah! I just never got into this album, although "Heartbreaker", "Against All Odds", and "Thank God I Found You" are favorites. I have her #1's album and should get her Greatest Hits album; No Doubt- Tragic Kingdom ($3.75 my receipt says...I thought this one was $4.50, lol)- such a classic album. It was the first non-Disney album I bought with my own money, but I just don't listen to it enough; Weezer- Make Believe ($2.50)- I don't hate Weezer, either! I like them, but don't listen to them much (but I didn't sell Pinkerton, since I adore that album); The Veronicas- The Secret Life of the Veronicas ($1.88)- I actually really like this album, and maybe I shouldn't have sold it. It was more about "artist loyalty"- I don't care about their 2nd album. I'll see how I get along without it; Michelle Branch- The Spirit Room ($1.25)- ditto. I don't care about her other music. And the same time, saying that, both of those albums have songs that I don't care as much about, so I don't know. Live and learn.
One thing I have thought of is, it'll cost more to reget these songs (i.e., download) than I got for the whole album, but if I get Amazon gift cards or something, then maybe eventually I'll reaccumulate. Until then, hello, YouTube. I do have to go through my harddrive and delete songs from albums I sold.
So, with my store credit, I rebought some scratched albums (and one that I had originally downloaded and wanted the hard-copy of- I only had downloaded it because I wanted it *now* and was heading out...silly me): the scratched ones: Cheyenne Kimball- The Day Has Come, Samantha Mumba- Gotta Tell You, Christina Aguilera- Christina Aguilera, Jessica Simpson- Sweet Kisses, Britney Spears- Oops, I Did It Again, and Mariah Carey- Daydream. I bought the bonus edition of Avril Lavigne- The Best Damn Thing- it was on sale for $9.99 and it's regularly $27.99 (it even rang up $27.99 but they fixed it). I know that that edition has swearing in it, or I thought it did, but I didn't see a Parental Advisory sticker... I don't recall it being used, but I don't recall it having all the packaging a new CD has, so maybe it was used, and maybe the original owner took the sticker off. Or maybe this isn't what I'm thinking of, but it does have the DVD [which I'm selling in my lot in the trade thread since I tend not to watch bonus DVDs with albums unless it's someone I really love]. The Jessica Simpson CD looks more scratched than I would expect, but I'll listen to it to make sure it's okay.
I signed up for the Backstage Pass, to save the 10%, which is free for the first 30 days, and you can cancel in that time period. I tried paying with my store credit, and the register wouldn't allow it, because you're supposed to pay with a credit card [so they can charge you the $9.99 a month or whatever if you don't cancel, natch!], but then the transaction was complete, 10% and all, no credit card given. I told the cashier, "I'm not going to complain!"
I have about 23 (give or take) more albums to replace. Some I don't have CD-R copies of and are somewhat scratched, but I need to double-check that they play, and some I have been using the CD-R copies of since the originals are scratched.
So, even by selling some of these albums, I'm losing some music, at least I'm getting some money to invest in my favorite music.
(edit) I feel like something didn't go write between copy/pasting...one paragraph ended up at the end, even though I could swear that that wasn't the last thing I typed...like, my last sentence wasn't last. I hope everything I just spent time typing out shows up!
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I wonder if my CD/DVD lot will sell. If not here, it's off to eBay, except I'll make some tweaks. I wonder if I should sell the music and DVDs separately- I just don't know. Advice on that would be useful, too! And I took some of the books down that I'm selling- 4 of them, I think. Even if I don't look at them much, they are or will be helpful tools and interesting reads.
I still have to get those work clothes up on eBay, but some boots I was selling (I live in FL now- I don't need boots!) didn't sell at first, but then someone contacted me about relisting, and I did and they paid, but I'm not making much on them (depending on shipping, $5 or $6, but I didn't pay too much for them initially, and $5 or $6 is more useful than the boots sitting in a bag on my floor!
I wish my other 2 clothing lots sold, but they weren't going for much, so it's okay, and those 2 are things I will still wear, I guess.
I wanted to get extra money before, but with the jewel cases, I owe $213. Yes, I'm serious. I went to Best Buy first, and I bought what they had (3 or 4 packages of 50 CDs and a few 30 packs). Later, I needed more, so I went to Office Max, since I needed to buy packing tape anyway. So much cheaper there. They're of a poorer quality- there were a few broken ones, but the box says 100% satisfaction guaranteed. Bobby fixed one of the broken ones; at first, I thought I had 10 broken Office Max cases, and I thought, hmm, I wonder if they'll give me a free 10 pack to replace these. But then Bobby fixed one, so I'll see how many I have left that he can't fix. I'm getting some money from PayPal, so I'll pay him back for that. I think I'm still paying off my Hanson ticket, but I have a feeling he hasn't been deducting that from my play money allowance recently. *sigh* I have a love/hate relationship with money.
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Oh, I just looked at my FYE receipt- I got a $6.51 "bonus percent 25%"- maybe if you sell a certain number of albums, you get a bonus 25%- that explains the $1.25's- see, I'm not going crazy!
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So, I go to church. I didn't grow up going to church, although I did sometimes go to youth group at my uncle's church. I never not believed in God, and when I was younger, if my daddy was on a business trip or something, I'd pray for his safety. When we moved to Florida, I thought that it might be nice to find a church, to meet some nice people or whatever. We didn't do anything about it, but then I took a history class over the summer in 2005, and the teacher said that his church was having a Memorial Day cookout, and that everyone is invited. Maybe that's weird for a teacher to do, but whatever. I was on the fence about it, but Bobby and I had no plans, and so I talked with the teacher after class, and we've been going to the church since. It's not your average church- we have less than 40 "members" (but we aren't "members"...), and we have a rock band and they play contemporary songs. I have some issues, which I may or may not get into here, but they're a great bunch of people, and they make up the majority of my Florida friends. Especially since my best Florida friend moved back home to New York, if I hang out with people, unless it's at a Hanson concert, these generally are the people I hang out with, except when I volunteer, even though I don't hang out with my volunteers, which is another story altogether (meaning: creepy guy I volunteered with recently- I didn't hang out with him, but I was leading the volunteer group, and he and I got to talking about my frugalness, and I mentioned freebie websites I go on, and he asked if I could email him the sites, and I did, and he was like, "You must have a file on your computer with all these typed out, otherwise you must really like me", and I HATE people who are pretentious like that, ugh, and I wrote him saying, "I have emailed a lot of people that list- I copy/pasted from a previous email", and then he started emailing me asking about things I like or whatever, and I thought I had made it clean when I wrote, " I don't like sports and I don't drink." And then after my "I'm married!" reply, he was like, "I understand that you're married. If you would enjoy helping me meet people..." I didn't even respond after that. Ew. And now he shows up on my Google chat list, because we emailed each other. Yuck. I don't hang out with my volunteers!).
Okay, my church. So, there's one guy who's in his early '40s, even though it doesn't seem like he's that old. He's into theme parks, and he likes Disney, so we have things in common- he, Bobby, and me. He just can't catch a break. He doesn't have a good/steady job, he's unmarried (never has been married), and doesn't have a good family situation. He sent out an email the other day about just his thoughts and about devotion. A while ago, he sent out an email saying that he'd like to move in with someone, and no one responded positively- well, Bobby had, but I didn't want us living with us for a few reasons, so basically I said, sorry, never mind (but I explained myself). There are more married couples with women who are home most of the time than not, so there aren't many places for him to move that would be comfortable (my uncle says that it's wrong for a man to move in with a married couple if the woman is home alone with him most of the time, and I agree, in terms of, not wanting to put thoughts into this guy's head, and I know he's not like that, but still. I know how guys are!). He doesn't like where he lives. He needs money.
The church does provide money- there's tithe money and all. I had been confused at different times about this, and now I know that a) if you have a need, the church will provide money, b) if you don't ask, you won't get the money, c) there's no need for people to be having money problems (one guy told me), but d) the pastor, in an email response to my question about the topic, said that if 2 or 3 people have big needs at once (like rent being paid or needing money for a medical somethign), that the church couldn't afford to pay that, and I guess he was getting at how some people don't really pay the tithe, which doesn't help. The pastor sent out an email (we have a group email list) saying a bunch of things, but one thing that stuck out was about the possibility of having (another, they've done this in the past) a group yard sale to raise money for the people in the church with financial needs (there is a married couple who I adore who have a less-than-1-year-old baby and the guy lost his job over a year ago and has been doing some freelance work and things, but they're in a touch financial situation). He was saying how in the Bible, people would sell their belongings to help each other. Lately I've been trying to sell my belongings to make extra money for myself, and part of me thinks that that's selfish, but I was thinking of bringing over a food pack for the guy I mentioned earlier- I already gave some food to the married couple I mentioned, and I might give them more, too. I'm a very frugal grocery shopper, and have a lot in my parntry. Not like we won't eat it, but still. I can always buy more cheap food later. There are lots of things I'd do if I had more money. I do volunteer work, but I would donate my money to some charities (when Katrina hit, I donated some money to help the animals affected by the storm). If needed, I could sell some other items in a garage sale (garage sales seem like an easier place to sell books and smaller-priced items) to help our church "members".
I guess all this to say, part of me feels selfish for selling my items, but at the same time, the money I'm making for clothes was going to go towards more clothes that fit better and/or lean more towards my growing sophisticated tastes (meaning thrift store Old Navy striped t-shirts vs. Elmo, although I'll never be too old for Disney shirts!), but now all my money will go towards jewel cases, haha, but that could be cheaper than buying a whole new bookcase, and it helps preserve what I've invested a lot of money in (non-scratched Disney DVDs are happier than scratched Disney DVDs). So in that sense, I don't feel that selfish. I should prepare some food packages for these people. I thought of even today, after doing my other things I have planned (a volunteer appreciation luncheon, woot!).
The 42-or-whatever guy I mentioned earlier- in December (?), I had given him a cooking lesson. Remember, the guy doesn't have a good family background and he's unmarried. I figured it'd be nice, and I spent money on food and accessories (potato masher, etc.). He was doing a good job- we made chicken and mashed potatoes, and I don't recall what else, if anything. I had bought more food than we had time to prepare, so I was planning on a second lesson. But then I found out later that instead of making the mashed potatoes like he learned, he was eating raw potatoes. I understand eating raw carrots, and even brocooli, or most vegetables, but not potatoes! I was very disappointed, and I told him, just throw away the turkey in your freezer (it was just ground turkey, not a whole turkey!), because I'm not going to waste my time teaching you how to cook if you're not going to follow through and cook what I taught you to make. The rest of the ingredients were things okay to eat on their own. I bet that potato masher hasn't seen the light of day since. I spent like $60 on that guy for nothing! I mean, I'm glad he had food. I've suggested to him more than once that if he wants a) community time, and b) free food, he could ask people to give him cooking lessons, but no. And I had sent him a response (a wicked long response, similar to how this is wicked long

) to his email about how he's feeling and whatever, and I'm a very honest person- some of it wasn't what he wanted to read, probably, about how a lot of us are job-hunting (but I wrote that my situation is different, since I have Bobby), and stuff, and about the failed cooking lessons. But I did mention other things. No response. Oh well.
Basically I'm writing all this to say that part of me feels almost selfish about selling things for myself, versus selling things to give money to the people in our church who need it more. At the same time, jewel cases not withstanding, the intention behind selling the clothes was to invest that money in clothes that fit better and/or are more classic. But now most of my money will be going to jewel cases, but that's a worthy investment. I have a few cases left, but eventually will have to get more. Hopefully these ones will last at least until the end of the year. We'll see.
For the rest of the year, the scheduled things to buy are:
Aug. 31- Miley Cyrus, "The Time of Our Lives" EP (that's a Monday, but that's the date I read)
Oct. 6- JONAS soundtrack CD and Backstreet Boys, "This Is Us" CD
Oct. 9-
Freestyle in theaters
Nov. 6-
A Christmas Carol in theaters
Dec. 1--
The Princess and the Frog in theaters
There are other things coming out (like
The Wizard of Oz and
Gone With the Wind DVDs), but I can get those for Christmas.
Part of me wishes I didn't download as many songs as I have- buying the physical CDs, while sometimes more expensive, makes more sense, especially since I like having the originals. I mean, for songs that are some of my favorite songs and I don't care about the rest of the artists' music, yeah, downloading makes sense, but I should burn those all to a CD or something. I know that Walmart.com used to have sometihng (maybe they still do) where you could have them burn you a CD of songs you download. I have no blank CD-Rs now, which maybe is good, I don't know.
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It's expensive being a Hanson fan. If you don't pay the $40 or whatever for the fan club, you miss out on exclusive songs...they only had one CD like that when I was a member, poo. But you can buy some back CDs, but I think you have to sign up for the fan club first. Poo. I have a book/CD (or just downloads, whatever they give), 2 DVDs, and a new EP to buy. Their website is just expensive- they're an indie band, so they can sell things however they want for how much they want.
And my music videos, on VHS- maybe I should get rid of some of those, or maybe not. I don't know. I don't watch them much. I'd save my Hanson and Mandy Moore ones, and maybe Backstreet Boys, but if I save theirs, I need to save 'NSync's, and if I save theirs, I should save Britney's and Christina's, and so I shouldn't sell the Britney, Jessica, or Avril DVDs in my big lot. See what goes through my head and makes me have insomnia like I do!
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Yesterday, I think I thought what my problem is with TV-on-DVD, besides being time consuming. With a movie, you have closure, a whole story, in about 2 hours or less. With a book, you have closure once you've read it. With a TV show, it keeps going and going and going, and it takes forever to have closure- more so with dramas, but still. I haven't yet bought "Flight 29 Down" on DVD, and will I buy "The Beautiful Life"? I do love me some Corbin, you all know I do, but that's a tough decision. I guess if I LOVE TBL, I can buy it, but we'll see. I don't even know how big a role he'll play, not like that'll matter. And even with the upcoming "JONAS" DVD- I love them, but it's TV-on-DVD. Ugh. Not to mention one of Disney's non-season set TV-on-DVDs.
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Just made my updated Christmas/things I'd like to get sometime list:
Hanson- Taking the Walk book
Hanson- Middle of Nowhere Acoustic DVD/CD
Hanson- Strong Enough to Break DVD
Hanson- Stand Up, Stand Up EP (I'd love to have this sooner, though)
Princess Protection Program DVD
Britt Nicole- The Lost Get Found CD (although I think Bobby wants this more than I do)
Wizards of Waverly Place CD (why did I bother downloading the songs?)...but this also depends on if I like Selena's new solo music, meaning the music on her upcoming album, which may or may not be on this list). I have to use discretion with upcoming artists with my new only-buy-certain-artists' albums rule that I may not have mentioned here)
Pollyanna DVD
Winnie the Pooh- Seasons of Giving DVD
The Boys- The Sherman Brothers Story DVD
Tinker Bell and the Lost Treasure DVD
20,000 Leagues Under the Sea DVD
College Road Trip DVD
Kelly Clarkson- All I Ever Wanted CD (deluxe ed.)
Kelly Clarkson- My December CD
Beverly Hills Chihuahua DVD
The Wizard of Oz DVD
Snowed in at the House of Mouse DVD
Gone With the Wind DVD
Elvis '68 Comeback Special DVD
Beatles & Elvis movies
Samantha Mumba- The Collection CD
other Disney DVDs
Mandy Moore movies I don't have yet
Santa Claus: The Movie DVD
other 2 Twilight books
Twilight DVD
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I know I won't get this all for Christmas, but I think it's important to have priorities in terms of what you buy or what you want, so you don't waste money on things you won't want later on. It's a lesson I've been slowly learning. Only spend on what you really, really want.
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I probably win the longest, most rambling post ever award. But insomnia will do that to a person. I have a lot going on in my brain sometimes, and even though it doesn't sound important in the scheme of things, it's everything you do and everything you learn that makes life worthwhile. And now it's too late to bother trying to fall asleep.