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The Gay Thread and Believing

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Oh, my. As I predicted, bringing up the subject of spirituality risked being attacked. And this is a gay thread. But I still went through with it. Ah, well.

There was talk about the Bible being hard to understand. But it seems not everything I meant was understood, either. Things weren't all "gotten" that I wrote. But I kind of like that it is possible for us to all use the same words and alphabet yet there are all these different possible meanings and understandings, which we may realize later.

Isidour, judging by your avatar and certain remarks about you being like Giselle hehee, I would think you would appreciate the beauty and amazement of the world. I bet you still do.

Scientists look microscopically at the details of things, and make analogies, saying things are just like other things.

But we should look at and celebrate differences. Of course things are like each other, looking at how they are unique is the better thing. We are amazing humans, look at how amazing we are, and be amazed how this world exists. We are more than animals. Do not lose your humanity, or your uniqueness.

Now, talking about God, with those attacking the very idea, has been not good, so it's wise to avoid it, but I'd still like to address things.

Goliath, of course you don't understand. You actually said you don't understand many things many times in your posts. Like not understanding the Bible, as one example. Learning facts (or what others write as facts), is not the same as understanding things, of course.

Of course I do not know some things in the sense of the word "know" I think you mean. Instead there is believing. And also, what you hear passed down from the times the Bible was written, etc.
Goliath wrote:And isn't it awful convenient to say that God 'spoke through these authors' and they didn't quite get it right because they had flaws etc. etc.? If God really wants his messages to reach the people, why doesn't he just appear and say to the people: "yo, listen up, here's the deal, 'kay?" Why does he have to find human writers to interpret his messages in stories which end up contradicting one another? The answer is, again, that men (humans!) made the stories up.
If God appeared and told everyone what he wanted, no one would need to believe anymore. Everyone would do everything he asked because they would know for sure their would be a reward or a punishment as this powerful being just appeared to their physical senses and told them.

When Jesus taught on Earth, he performed small miracles, which not everyone saw, they lived in an age where no one could take videos, some people saw what he did and the rest could only hear about what he did, and some probably doubted that what they were seeing wasn't just tricks, the same as people doubt what they see today, not to mention some people thought Jesus may have had spiritual (or occult) power but still said a heretic for saying he was the son of God. But other than that, he was still in the form of a weak human, and people still needed to believe in what he was saying, believe he was who he said he was. And those that didn't, well, killed him.

The Bible is something left to us, that holds everything that happened since the beginning of time. All we need to know is what happened very early on, and everything we need to know's right there. God appeared once in the flesh. Once should be enough. That's the whole point.
Goliath wrote:The earliest stories in the Old Testament are believed to have been written during the time the Jews were in exile in Babylon (under the reign of Nebudchadnezzar).
Interesting.

But anyway...

Yes, you already said some biblical stories are different versions of earlier stories. And I already pointed out every story is just a different version of another story. You have heard the phrase "There are only seven stories in the world"? That's some of what the whole TV thing was about, maybe you'll get more what I was saying now. Of course, that phrase is something someone said that they believed to be true, based on whatever evidence and looking at similarities they did (like a scientist!), but I can choose not to believe it, so I can be happy and try to create new things. Believing is a wonderful thing.

Anyway, historians have found that a great flood of those proportions did indeed happen to the world, and of course different cultures would spin the account differently. No one can figure out which one is the true account. I do not care if the writers of the Bible got a few names and details wrong. The point is the messages God wants to send are there.

Mention of multiple gods roaming around in the Bible makes perfect sense. The people did indeed believe in multiple gods before God himself told them, "Yea, um, it's only me and some angels and spirits, k?" No doubt the writers recorded a lot of history, very many stories they heard, from people who lived before they learned some things about God.
Goliath wrote:I've heard it, and it's a false saying. It's invented to keep people uninformed and ingnorant of the truth.
On the contrary, there are lots of things you'd be happier not to know. You know there's things you would not like to know, not like to find out about.

But it certainly can't be false when I am an example of a person who has been happier not knowing certain things. Knowing certain things has actually made me unhappy. As is the case with everyone. As we grow up, we learn terrible things which make us less happy than we were before, along with learning the things that make us happy. But why not choose to only learn the things that make us happy? Well, yes, that's what we should do.

And as for the "truth" to be ignorant of, as I said, the "truth" gets changed each day by whatever scientists or historians or others find.

Religion DOES get updated. Every new Pope allows or decides new things. The church started to allow altar girls when they previously did not. They keep forgiving people that they previously said were heretics or blasphemers, like Galileo, for saying the planets revolved around the sun, etc, all because of new information. The Bible most certainly does get revised and edited, not the original text, but at least the translations, and there are debates as to which books to keep or even add, the dead sea scrolls were found, etc. Religion is certainly open to debate as there are debates about it within the church by religious leaders, or debates by other people who talk to religious leaders. And you can indeed question it, as every adult, even the church, knows people must, and a priest I told encouraged me to.

Yes, believing what you choose to believe is indeed thinking for yourself.
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Disney Duster wrote:As I said, they classified homosexuality as a mental illness.
Yes, once they did. But decades ago, they found out that they were wrong. And they admitted it. And now they don't call it that anymore. Because they're wiser now. Whereas religion still uses the Bible and the Thora and the Qu'ran to oppress and harrass homosexuals.
But you forget, what's right or wrong is also in opinion, or rather, beliefs. And some scientists would and still are believing whatever us mutated homosexuals are is not how we're supposed to be, and as they scientifically find out how people work and offer babies' sexes to be determined before being born, who knows what will become of homosexuals using science.
Goliath wrote:It can make you happy, but it has nothing to do with the truth.
Hm, maybe the truth has nothing to do with people's happiness.

You are curious. Finding "the truth", knowing what is "real" can make you happy, because you want to do it, it's what you want to do now. Yet, some things you find out also make you unhappy. I know it's a double-edged sword. And I know you don't want to believe that you can't find the truth, or that there is no truth, because then there's nothing to hold on to. But you can believe what you want, and believe it is right and true. And it will be real and true as far as you're concerned. And that's what you can do. So I suggest you find out about things that will make you happy, not just be happy because you're finding out things. Learn about an upcoming movie you're interested in.

Animals do indeed war with and kill each other. A mother hamster doesn't need religious beliefs or greed for money when she eats her own babies. Tell cows they don't pollute the air with their own methane. Those are just some examples. But it doesn't matter anyway, because, as you see, humans already do something more than animals, you just listed some bad things we do that they don't.

But aside from that specific physical sense, humans are more than animals in another sense, whether it's a higher being sense or a spiritual sense. Whatever sense it is, whatever it indescribably is, you have always known humans are more.

If you want to feel more like an animal and take your evolution back billions of years, well, I don't know why you would, but do what you want!

And of course, to believe is human.

Oh, Chris, you sadden me. You said you loved Goliath right then. You may be surprised to find out what science says about love itself. No matter what they ever say, believe it is more, believe it is what you think it is, and what you want to, ok? Science believes, or rather, tells us they "know" that the world is all these rules and it totally is only everything they say. Well, Ariel went after her dreams, her impossible dreams, and believed she could do anything. She believed, no matter what, someday she'd be part of that world.

Do not believe in nothing, you may say you believe in this world and it's people, but scientists will tell you it will all either turn back to dust, be swallowed by the sun or a black hole, or retract back into nothing when the universe is done expanding from the Big Bang and does the opposite.

Ariel believed in more than what seemed physically, scientifically possible. Chris, don't ever stop believing. It is not looney or crap to believe. After all, what everyone is doing is believing. People just believe different things. Believe in what makes you happy, Chris.

And of course I already explained that if God appeared and said what was what today, to everyone instead of only to a few chosen people back then, who told others about it, then no one would be required to believe, and everyone would do exactly what he wanted because he was right there.
Goliath wrote:Ain't that the truth. I've said it often to people: suppose I walk outside and I declare to everybody I meet that I'm the son of God. People would laugh at me, the autorities would have me arrested for disturbing public order.[/b]
Oh, much like what happened to Jesus. Laughed at, arrested, and then of course killed by the authorities.
Goliath wrote:But believing that a 2,000 years old man who raised from the death is answering your prayers? Noooo, THAT'S not ridiculous!...
And of course the people who believed in that were persecuted as well.

I also want to educate people about the Bible. I want to educate them about what changes happened to it, what was possibly the original Bible with it's original meanings, about anything regarding homosexuality, if it was even in the Bible.

But I do not want to crush their whole religion by, well, what you seem to be doing, trying to say the whole Bible is made up or fake. This is a big difference between what you want to do and what I wish to do.

WELL I really don't want to talk about religion much more in here. If you don't have a whole narrative to say, then I'll respond to whatever you want to write back, but if you have a huge amount more, we should probably move it somewhere.
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Uh... yeah... I will believe in what I want to believe in. Thanks for telling me something I figured out back in high school. :roll:
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Lazario wrote:I wasn't aware that the McCain Campaign's precious Joe the Plumber was talking about gays now in the media... (Stopped this post to go to Google) Just did a search on the Google and here's what that steaming pile of dog dung said about Us... This guy is about as intelligent as a rusty nail.
Yeah. It's even so bad, even Elisabeth Hasselbeck was trashing him! Of all people!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YLkLbG3oNn0

By the way... The name of the magazine in which Joe spouted his anti-gay garbage? 'Christianity Today'...
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Oh boy... whew... where to begin? I'm not going to do it quote-by-quote, like my last post, because it would take too much time and I would be repeating myself. By the way, you said you were 'attacked'. I hope you don't feel that way. This is nothing personal.

Let me begin with what's bothering me. You're right that not knowing a lot of things can make you happier. If I decided to stop obsessively read newspapers and watching tv news and checking the Internet for alternative news sources, I'd probably be happier. If *everybody* did that, everybody would be happier... Right? Well, not really. See, if everybody did that, nobody would *know* stuff anymore. We would all be terribly ill-informed about what's going on in the world. (Yes, even more so than we are today.) Who would profit from this? Governments! People in positions of power! They would be blessed with a population of people who don't check what their leaders are doing. And I'm not saying they don't get away with a lot of criminal activities nowadays, because they do! Oh, how they do...! And that's *now*, when a lot of people are paying attention. Imagine what it would be like if nobody paid attention anymore.

Why would anybody want that? The power establishment can screw you over as much as they like when you are not informed about what they're up to. This way, you become less happy when in fact you *believe* you are happy. That's why I think your attitude is potentially dangerous. You could get royally screwed and still be content with it...

I think I have just figured out why Ronald Reagan was so succesfull...

Never mind.

Then I want to adress what you said about religion being updated. I don't see how appointing a new, more conservative ex-nazi Pope is 'updating'. He rehabillitated a priest who denies the Holocaust. He said -get this!- that using condoms actually makes the aids-problem *worse*. This man has blood on his hands. But moving away from the Pope... Those claims you made about the church accepting new theories about the universe (the earth revolving around the sun etc.); they are not true. The church initially rejected those claims and they threw Galilei in the dungeon. That's the church for you. Have you not learned about the Spanish Inquisition, the witch-hunts? They didn't exactly welcome debate or 'updating', now did they? They decided it was better to set people on fire if they didn't agree with them.

And when was the Bible ever updated since *humans* decided which texts where 'holy' and which ones weren't, at the Council of Nicea in 325 AD? And why does the Catholic Bible have 13 books more than the Protestant one? Oh, I know: because humans have decided that some books are 'holy' and others are not. And that was *ages* after Jesus of Nazareth had roamed the earth. So why people still believe the Bible is God's one and true word, is beyond me, because it's written and selected by humans. Not by God.

This brings me to your misrepresentation of my not 'understanding' things. You act like that's the result of me not believing or not grasping the idea of God and Christianity. But it's not. The 'not understanding' is simply an amazement. Yes, I know the difference between 'knowing' and 'believing', but I am simply amazed at the lack of knowledge (often willfully) by many 'believers'. Why do believers pretend to understand Christianity, the Bible or even God, when they don't even know where their religion came from? Don't you think the Bible is hard to understand? I'm not talking here about literally understanding what it says ("and then this happened and then this and then this"), but about understanding what it means, in the context of when it was written, or nowadays. It *is* a hard book to understand, but most believers seem to see past that.

Again: why would you want to compare a holy book, which is the basis of a religion practiced by millions, with a tv show?! It makes no sense at all. You don't seem to mind that stories in the Bible are really altered versions of older myths. Why not? Why are the older, original stories 'myths', but the plagarized Bible versions are the 'word of God'? Why are the beliefs of millions of people who believed in multiple gods false, and is only the much later Christian God real? What makes God more credible than, say, Zeus? And if it's true that, as you say, God appeared (in the form of Jesus) to the people to tell them there's only one God, why did he wait so long? All those people who lived before Jesus, or even the people who lived before the Jews came up with the original idea of one God, are they all in hell? Simply because God didn't tell them? Isn't that a bit rude, when it's his fault for neglecting to tell them?

That brings me to another point. You are right when you said that, initially, Jesus of Nazareth (whom we can assume was a real historical figure) was laughed at and ridiculed and put to death. But so were many other self-proclaimed prophets. Jesus was the leader of a very small sect of Jews, like there were so many others at that time. What made him more credible than all the other so-called prophets? Those little miracles you speak of; who saw them? The books about Jesus weren't written until long after his death, by people who didn't even knew him personally. Why would you want to take their word for it? They make Jesus look like a magician, with water turning into wine, and walking on water etc. I believe Jesus is a good role model, but he's no superman.

Reminds me of a saying of Ghandi: "I like your Christ. I don't like your Christians. They're so unlike your Christ."

Last, I want to know why God doesn't come down to explain to us how we should live. I know, I know, it wouldn't be 'believing' anymore. But he sure didn't seem to care back in the old days, if you want to believe the Bible. In the Bible, God is speaking to people all the time about how they should live. Why hasn't he shown up since? It has been a few millennia... And why does he needs us to 'believe' in him? He's supposed to be a supreme being! Why does he give a .... how we think about him? He's insecure? The Old Testament portrays an insecure, jealous, petty God. That's just too human, don't you think? You really think a supreme being like God would have such human emotions? Isn't this just more evidence that the Bible isn't inspired by God, but by desert people who didn't know where the sun went at night?

I give up on teaching you the difference between religion and science, and the value of the latter. If you don't *want* to know, I can't force you.
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Disney Duster wrote: Isidour, judging by your avatar and certain remarks about you being like Giselle hehee, I would think you would appreciate the beauty and amazement of the world. I bet you still do.
Errr...Why am I like Giselle? ·_· ?
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Goliath wrote:Why hasn't he shown up since?
He's too busy playing skee-ball. :P
Isidour wrote:Errr...Why am I like Giselle? ·_· ?
Maybe you once sang "That's How You Know" whilst prancing about in Central Park with Patrick Dempsey? :lol:

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You've made it very easy for me to talk with you, Goliath, thank you.

I like this form.

I did feel that you were attacking my beliefs and spirituality. Well, at least my religion. But I wasn't complaining, I was just saying I knew it would happen.

I was not saying that we should not find out things. Rather, we should find out what we want to, and what we think will make us happy.

Scientists try to figure out everything there is to know ever, and they feel it is their duty to. They want to know how everything works. Well, that's them. They think they should find out everything.

If you find out things about world leaders and events, that's different from finding out about something as personal as genetic make-up and finding there's an un-evolved gene that makes people lactose-intolerant when they are not infants. A gene found in apes. Yes, some people have an un-evolved ape gene. That would make them feel terrible. I hate science sometimes. But I will not believe what those scientists think they found. And, I don't want to, but I might just tell my lactose intolerant friend, who also has a High IQ. She likes learning about genes and things, I think. This may actually make her not, though!

I won't believe that gene talk, however. I will not think of it like it's an ape gene. That's merely one way of thinking of it, pushed by scientists, and their categorizing, and their theories of evolution.

She can think of it as just a problem somewhere in the molecules that make up her body.

Basically, find out about what you really want to and what you think will make you happy. Not "don't find out anything"! Finding out about political leaders may not be wanted or make you happy, true. But finding out about certain scientific things, regarding religion or...ourselves, well, for some it may be the smarter thing, the better thing, the happier thing, to not listen to whatever they're coming up with about those things.

The new Pope that was chosen may not be a good Pope. But the point is each new Pope is a new chance for change. And the Pope did change things. That was another point. Things change in the religious order. We hope people will vote for a Pope who does more positive changes next time.

As for Galileo, the church did indeed apologize for saying he was a blasphemer or heretic or whatever else they did to him, just many, many years afterward. In fact, maybe it was even this or last decade, I don't remember. And as they think about new information, they continue to forgive more, allow more, and change more.

You bringing up the Spanish inquisition and burning people was the perfect example that proves my point. They don't do those things anymore. They have changed.

The Bible is changed with new translations of the text. It's true, I have not kept up with what the new editions of the Bible are like now, but one example is, well, we have the King James' version, and then other new versions. Changed, different versions. Updated.

Different people believe different things. Some people believe certain books are what God wants to be heard, and others aren't. Catholics believe all their books are the ones intended by God to be read. And a different religion will believe something different.

You certainly still do not understand some things! And that makes sense, because as you said, not everyone understands all of their own religion either. And you know, we are not supposed to understand God. God is this amazing being that does things our human minds couldn't begin to comprehend.

Also, there is trust. We don't know everything. We can't. But we believe and we trust. You know that trust is also something that can make you happy. You can be negative and bring up how trust can lead to bad things happening to you, but you also know that trust can make you happier as well. In fact, usually it works out that trust makes you very happy until a bad thing happens to you. Ah, well, we don't know what will happen for sure, that's why we're trusting!

The Bible is indeed hard to understand. That's why people are supposed to talk to other people. About what they think about the Bible, and why, because of their lives and they way they are, God probably wants it this way and allows this, et cetera. As I said, there are debates within religion. But the main messages from God about loving and respecting, the Ten Commandments, and the Golden Rule (Jesus said this is the most important one, from which all other rules stem), are all there in the Bible. All we really need to do is listen to and understand those.
Goliath wrote:Again: why would you want to compare a holy book, which is the basis of a religion practiced by millions, with a tv show?! It makes no sense at all. You don't seem to mind that stories in the Bible are really altered versions of older myths. Why not? Why are the older, original stories 'myths', but the plagarized Bible versions are the 'word of God'? Why are the beliefs of millions of people who believed in multiple gods false, and is only the much later Christian God real? What makes God more credible than, say, Zeus?
I was never comparing the Bible to a TV show. Misunderstandings are abound! I was mentioning how similar many stories all are to each other, and that this is because even in real life, the things that happen to people today are like the things that happened to people in the past, and what happens in our lives is the same kind if things written in stories written these days or in the past.

In real life people keep doing the same things over and over again. We will always have the emotions of love, sadness, anger and happiness. They will never change. The same situations remarkably keep happening to every person in every generation. And our stories reflect real life.

It may be hard to explain, but anyway it doesn't matter. A great flood happened. Different groups of people wrote about it differently. The belief is that one God, our God, did it and maybe Noah was the guy's actual name or maybe it wasn't. The point is God got mad, tried to do away with the bad, and started over again thanks to one good individual, and God sent a rainbow that he would never send a flood like that again, at least in some versions.

So it sounds similar to other people's accounts of the flood written down before the Jews. So? So the Jews wrote down the event much later, and maybe they got the names wrong, or maybe they were actually the ones who got it right, it's just the Jews passed down the correct version of the story orally while other cultures wrote it down first with their own beliefs.

If you're still confused, it doesn't matter. I don't think I can explain it any better. And what's amazing is this problem doesn't bother me as a Christian. Belief and trust is a wonderful, powerful thing.
Goliath wrote:And if it's true that, as you say, God appeared (in the form of Jesus) to the people to tell them there's only one God, why did he wait so long? All those people who lived before Jesus, or even the people who lived before the Jews came up with the original idea of one God, are they all in hell? Simply because God didn't tell them? Isn't that a bit rude, when it's his fault for neglecting to tell them?
You did not get some things right, even with the knowledge you say you have about the Bible and religion! God told people that it was just him and whatever other spiritual beings there were way before Jesus came. When? I dunno. I have not read the whole Bible (don't believe I need to, don't believe God needs me to either, though someday I want to). And actually, as for those people who lived before Jesus came, they say they actually were in Hell because of original sin from Adam and Eve. They say Jesus went into Hell first after he died on the cross, suffered for three days, I think, and brought them all up to Heaven before rising from the dead. The point is supposed to be, I think, that though we may not understand it, God needed to suffer for what we did in order to make us able to enjoy eternal life again.

As for what you wrote about Jesus, well, Jesus said he was the son of God, and people were believing him and following him as we do today, and that didn't merely sound blasphemous, but Jesus was leading so many people, he was getting very big and people were listening to him instead of the government or other powers in charge, so the government killed him. That, and I'm sure other reasons, were why he was such a big deal. As for the other self-proclaimed prophets, yea they did some amazing stuff but I think usually it was like God was doing it to them, not that the son of God, God in the flesh, was doing the miracles himself, and the things he did were much greater than what the others did. But it was probably more that this prophet named Jesus said he was the son of God, that he wasn't just a prophet, and he, you know, rose from the dead, as well as made others rise from the dead. He did a lot.

And if you still don't get why he was so big and powerful and so totally the Son the of God, in a way that's great to me, because then it's indescribable and as mysterious as God himself.

As for why God isn't talking to people today, well, actually people do say God talked to them. I am not sure if I believe them. But they say they get visions and stuff, like one guy had a vision of Mary who said Jesus was coming soon, and stuff. We're not going to talk about what "soon" means when God has lived infinitely long.

But more in answer to what you were asking...you know, you've actually asked lots of questions Christians ask their preists, others, and themselves. I've asked some of them, I think I remember. But...

Back in Biblical times, God had to talk and do things to let people know that, well, he was there, he was the only one God, and he had to let them know what they should do, et cetera. But even if he talked to a lot of people, it was still just the chosen ones. I don't remember exactly, but I'm pretty sure there were times in the Bible when someone had to tell other people about the one true God, and they didn't believe that person, but then through miracles, or events, or enough talking, the people came to believe that person. Like even in the story of Moses there's like the Pharaoh with all his many Egyptian gods, and then Moses comes in saying, "No, it's one, he told me."

And this was all passed down orally, and then written down. And it is supposed to be all we need to believe. After all, it has succeeded all through time in being a way that we at least know of and about God.

By the way, I don't think you quite got the whole "inspired by God" writing of the Bible. God didn't appear to the writers and tell them what he wanted written down, exactly. He filled them with his spirit or whatever and guided them. But though humans are extremely flawed, the idea is God's messages, what he mainly needed to say, came through. I love what Jesus says, the Golden Rule is what you most importantly need to know.

Only some people believe in all that's in the Bible literally, I should mention.

As for God caring what we think about him...um, yea. If I created something I would definately care how it feels about me. I would want it to love me and listen to me.

As for God's rather human emotions, we were created in God's image, thus, we are like God and God is like us. Who's idea was it that a supreme being can't feel? I'd rather believe we have a feeling God.

It's true God was written as angry and jealous and such. I think a few things about that. Well, for starters, when Jesus came, he actually said some rules in the old testament needn't be adhered to anymore, and he was such a nice guy, saying what is really important is the Golden Rule, loving others as yourself, and whenever God was mentioned he seemed nicer when Jesus talked about him. Or, that's what I remember...

Along with that, I have no doubt the writers of the Bible, as well as those that originally heard what God said, or even those who heard God himself, basically had a being beyond their understanding put what "he" "wanted" to "say" in human language and human understanding. In other words, God was trying to make himself understandable to humans, and it translated as angry and jealous or whatever. Or the writers of the Bible span things how they thought they should be written, ending up writing God as jealous and hateful. Or, you know, that's one of the changes that happened as the Bible went through history.

It doesn't matter. Today, I feel God would never hate or do certain things that the Bible clearly says he does, like he hates certain people (or what those people do, hate all liars) and will put people in Hell. So why don't I believe those? I go with my feelings. I have felt for a while God is not like that. I just go with my feelings, in the brain and the heart God gave me. I know he wants me to be happy and I think he wants me to love who I want, even if it's a guy. Each day, I try to think about what God wants, or allows.

Hell is being without God. If you don't want to be with God and his rules, you go to Hell and the pain you feel is the pain of being without God, whatever that feels like. Maybe I will end up there if I really don't want to be with a gay-hating God. But the God I believe in is not one who thinks it's bad that I love boys like me. That's how I feel.

And that's why I want to try to find out how the Bible originally was written and what it originally meant before Romans wrote about homosexuality being bad in it or whatever else happened to it.

And even if I never do, I'll think of the most important rule, love others as you love yourself.

Isidour, your girlfriend said you were "like the princess in Enchanted". By the way...did you break up with her? You may have already told me that...
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Disney Duster,

I'm glad you're not mad at me for what I wrote. I still support what I wrote, but I know I can come accross a little harsh at times.

I feel we could go on forever with this debate. But, not only is it very off-topic, it would take up too much of my time, and obviously, we're never going to agree. Therefore, I will only make some closing remarks:

Believing the Bible literally always frightens me. I mean, you may be a believer, a Christian, and although I am not, that's fine with me. But taking this book literally is shocking, to me. That would mean you believe there really was a boat big enough for all those animals to survive 40 days of rain and flood? A woman really comes from the rib of a man? There was a guy who lived in a whale, and it was not Pinocchio? It would also mean that you believe the earth is only about 12.000 years old, and e.g. dinosaurs have never roamed the earth, and men didn't evolve.

Well, you will say, "I will not believe what scientists tell me". But science is not there for you to believe in. It's not a religion. It can be measured, it can be proven, there are artifacts to back it up. I'm sorry, but the earth is not 12.000 years old, but over 4.5 billion years old. Men and dinosaurs didn't exist together. Humans share ancestors with the chimpansee, because we both evolved from the same source. We have found fossils and we can date them to prove this. We have not made it up, like religion.
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To get sort of back on topic... you guys should check out this awesome video.

This 9-year-old boy named Ethan spoke in front of a crowd about marriage equality.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DLN-JYiDVC0
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xxhplinkxx wrote:To get sort of back on topic... you guys should check out this awesome video.

This 9-year-old boy named Ethan spoke in front of a crowd about marriage equality.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DLN-JYiDVC0
And already the right wing nutjobs are saying he was coaxed into saying it by radical liberals corrupting our youth. :roll:

And guys, why do you even bother talking about religion? It's an unstoppable force meeting an immovable object of a conversation. Nobody is going to say they are wrong, nobody is going to change their minds. Believe what you want, just don't get mad when others believe in something else.
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xxhplinkxx wrote:To get sort of back on topic... you guys should check out this awesome video.

This 9-year-old boy named Ethan spoke in front of a crowd about marriage equality.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DLN-JYiDVC0
The kid gets it, why don't adults?
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Flanger-Hanger wrote:The kid gets it, why don't adults?
RIGHT?! My thoughts exactly.
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Disney Duster wrote: Isidour, your girlfriend said you were "like the princess in Enchanted". By the way...did you break up with her? You may have already told me that...
Oh...that...yes, we did broke up :(
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Flanger-Hanger wrote:The kid gets it, why don't adults?
It's the nature of humanity. People aren't going to listen to a kid. In fact, all of us have already made up our minds about marriage equality.

Plus this is a very bad and stupid world in a lot of ways. Things aren't going to change overnight. Nor, over the course of many, many decades.
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Lazario wrote:
Flanger-Hanger wrote:The kid gets it, why don't adults?
It's the nature of humanity. People aren't going to listen to a kid. In fact, all of us have already made up our minds about marriage equality.

Plus this is a very bad and stupid world in a lot of ways. Things aren't going to change overnight. Nor, over the course of many, many decades.
It was more a rehtorical question than anything else because this was the answer in my head. However if 9 year olds get the concept now I don't think it's going to take as long as you do for change to happen. In less than 5 months time we've already seen 4 additional states accept gay marriage this year alone.
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Isidour, I'm sorry. I re-remembered what happened to your girlfriend. So sorry.

Well Goliath It was probably best to end it short. I agree it could've gone on far too long.

But I do hope you still read everything I said in reply to what you said.

I never said I believed in the Bible literally. There are stories in it that contradict each other. Only some people believe in it all literally and I don't know how they do.

Science is definately something you can choose to believe or not believe. As I tried to point out, it changes all the time. You say it changes based on updates, right. But it still means that a new discovery can completely change what they thought was the the truth and was proven before.

Science has unveiled...some scary, bad, depressing things. Things that may make people not want to live. Sometimes it is better to only believe in what makes you happy and want to live. Perhaps science has not made you feel that way so far. Fine. That is you.

Something interesting is historically, since the time of cavemen people have believed in the spiritual beyond and something or things that created everything. It has been that way since humans began. You may say now we are being "updated", but did you know that some people think we will genetically and bionically change ourselves in the future? Humans may not be human anymore, humans may not be anymore, but instead highly "advanced" robots. That's what some "smart scientific" people think. I wonder if in the future, as human nature changes, so will the basic emotions of love or happiness. Or maybe they'll cease to exist as we know them when everything's changed so much.

I don't want to be scientifically updated if that's what it leads to.

No one knows anything for sure. We are simple humans after all, how do we know we aren't completely not getting something? How do we know our humans brains aren't completely missing something? But what matters is that we can believe in whatever we want, because know one knows anything for sure. I think Socrates said something like that once.

And I can't just let you say religion was made up, when it wasn't. Or rather, you don't know it was, for sure, and I believe it wasn't.

I will believe what I want, and what I really do think is still possible, so that I can be happy.
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I have some new gay related news!

My local summer theatre is doing a production of "Rent: School Edition," and I've been cast as Angel! I'm so excited!!! :D
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That's awesome, congrats!

But um... School Edition? What's that, just no cursing or something?
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2099net wrote:I wouldn't say I frequent this thread often, but I pop-in every now and then. I'm fascinated why Disney films seem to have gathered such a gay following. It's not what I would have expected to be honest, Princesses or not.

I'm not so much a Disney-fan - since joining I've drifted further and further away from Disney really - but I am a big Doctor Who fan which has always had a huge gay fandom.
Does Doctor Who really have a gay fanbase? To be honest, I can in some ways understand the whole Disney acquiring a gay fanbase (musicals, fantasy and fairy-tales etc). But the Doctor becoming a gay icon...that's something that I was shocked to read. :P

On topic, I'm not (Gasp! no closet to walk out of? Oh, what controversy! :p), but I have a similarly aged relative who is, and one or two friends (well, more good acquaintances, but still) who are. My taste in films used to be pretty stereotypically gay as well (when I say that, I mean that I used to really like musicals, but in all fairness, I've pretty much gone off them in recent years...I saw The Wizard of Oz again last summer and even that didn't do much for me). I also have discovered (via Facebook ;)) that at least four girls I went to school with are now lesbians. But even if they weren't around, I think that I would remain pro-gay rights. I'm an idealist at heart and honestly believe in equal rights for every person, and I find it so ridiculous that somebody would deny someone the right to do certain things just because they find adults (yes adults, not children or animals for God's sake) of the same sex attractive.

In the UK for example (which I like to think of as generally enlightened and a good example...but it aint always the case :roll: ), gay and bisexual men aren't allowed to donate blood. I know that it's a small detail, but I just find it so pathetic and old-fashioned. I think that out of the developed countries, the US is the worst, mainly due to some of the absolute religious nutcases in and out of the government. For a country whose government has been so bent on fighting Islamic extremism, it's ironic how there are so many Christians in America (mainly the likes of the "Harry Porter should be stoned" club and the Westboro baptist church) who are so disturbingly obsessive and subsequently offensive.

I also find it somewhat cringe-making how as well so many women seem to use homosexual males as a kind of token funny friend (read: essentially a human handbag accessory). True, quite often, gay men and straight women become best friends due to good mutual connections. But for me, on the surface, a lot of these friendships seem a bit superficial.

And finally, I also think that men should be more open in general male-male friendships as well. Now, I don't expect/want some sloppy kiss from everyone. Yet considering how open some female-female friendships are, it'd be nice to be able to let things off the chest without either gaining weird looks or drinking ten pints of beer to get it to look like drunken mayhem. :( :roll:
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Flanger-Hanger wrote:The kid gets it, why don't adults?
If everybody had the heart of a child, then the world would absolutely be a better, safer and happier place. :)
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