If Cinderella isn't your favorite Disney princess, let's talk
(Like with the Snow White one, I'm typing as I'm watching!) Disney Duster, how do you feel about Liana in the video saying that without Cinderella III, Cinderella would not be her favorite princess? Even with the original story, people think that Cinderella is a gold digger and that she's weak? I mean, that's sad that people think that Snow/Cindy/Aurora are just waiting for a man to come along. Like, man or no man, Snow and Cindy are enslaved to their families, not cared about. The mental abuse they go through, in addition to the physical abuse that we see Cinderella go through-- these women need a change in a life, they need an improvement, they need to get away from their abusers. So sure, it may come in the form of a man, and that's just what these stories tell of. But what if a circus came to town, and Snow and Cindy had the opportunity to run away. Maybe it wouldn't be a perfect life, as the life of a princess is perceived to be, but it'd still probably be an improvement to their lives, right?
OMG, she addressed the "Transatlantic accent," as she called it. I've always wondered why people in older movies have a not-quite-American, not-quite-British accent! That's not something we had learned in my film classes.
So, when she is talking about Cinderella losing her parents and suffering...I mean, same for Snow White. They both have evil stepmothers, so while she acknowledged Snow having a hard time, I do see the parallel between Snow and Cindy's family life. Disney Duster, I'm curious as to how you see Cinderella's family life/life at home vs. Snow White's. {As I said, I'm typing as I'm watching.} Okay, so she did mention that Snow may not have known that she was as hated as she was by the Queen. So sure, doing manual labor is not the same as also being physically abused, and at least in the film, we didn't see the Queen physically abuse Snow White, like we see Drizella & Anastacia abusing Cindy. But both had a hard life for sure. I do agree that it's amazing when you think about it that Cinderella was able to remain kind while knowing the living hell that she was in. I love that she defended the fact that Cinderella realistically couldn't have just left the home (and I think you recently mentioned this, DD, but it's not something that I usually think about. But that's her dad's house and if she were to leave, she'd be leaving that behind, when really that should be her house.
Hmm, that is interesting that she could have told Prince Charming (she didn't know who he was obviously) that she was in need of assistance to get out of her situation, but she didn't. Yes, she did only want one night out and she was beyond content with getting that wish, but if she had mentioned it, if she knew that that was an option (if it was an option), then would she have thought to tell him?! *mind blown*
Okay, when earlier Liana said 'But it's Cindy's dad's house and it's the last thing she has of her dad,' and then she says she left her stepfamily in the chateau. I mean, surely Cindy can come visit her father's house whenever she wants, right? Like, to use the argument of not wanting to leave her father's house, but then also Cindy so easily moves into the palace. I mean, her situation is what she needed to leave behind, whether her stepfamily moved out or Cindy moved out...I don't know how else to word this, so I hope it makes sense.
Yay, Cindy's sassiness & humor! And yes, she is such a great friend. And yes, that was a HUGE gesture for Cindy blocking Lady Tremaine from Anastacia in CIII- it speaks SO MUCH about Cinderella's character.
IN DEFENSE OF CINDERELLA - Why I Love Cinderella (A Video Essay)
Yes, I like that she says that emotional strength is just as valid as physical strength. Yes, like the previous video, this is her father's house, but YES, who else would take care of the animals if Cindy were to leave?! This video has been making me cry- I relate to a lot of what she's speaking about, and [not to get too off topic] I know that in real life, women's shelters don't usually (or ever) allow animals, so that's a huge barrier to abused people needing to stay in their situation [not to derail the subject, but there is a nonprofit that is working to solving that issue: https://www.purina.com/about-purina/pur ... sh-project]. So even if Cindy did have a place to go, she probably would have had to leave behind all of her animal friends. [Um, did she bring all the chickens and horses to the palace?] "Accepting help is okay." This is a huge lesson that probably doesn't get enough attention.




