reyquila wrote:Shouldn't gays love the princes? This makes no sense!!!
And yet Judy Garland, Cher, and Joan Crawford have enormously huge gay fanbases...
Anyway, on page one, ichabod asked pretty much the same question and Howard, merlinjones, and Sailor Eric explained it quite well. You must've accidentally skipped their posts...
On the first page, ichabod asked and wrote:Forgive me if this seems a stupid question, but why are the princesses so popular with gay forum members here?
I mean surely logic would dictate it would be the princes that would grab their attention more?
Which was followed by these three explanations by Howard (PrincePhillipFan, but I call him Howard), merlinjones, and Sailor Eric...
Howard answered iccy's post and wrote:I think it mainly has to do with the fact that many other gay men identify themselves with a lot of the princesses in the stories. Especially in Little Mermaid, where Ariel longs to be a part of a different world she finds fascinating, which her father suppresses. Many gay people feel that they're different and are longing to find their place like Ariel, despite parents or other elder's objections. Hence why I think that Ariel and the Little Mermaid tends to have the biggest following, since its storyline hits close to home for a lot of gay people. I know that feeling myself when I tried to suppress and hide being gay for so many years, being told by others that they thought it was wrong.
merlinjones contributed as well and wrote:Because the Princes are merely supporting players (even objectives) in most of the fairy tales, while the heroines suffer, pine, sing, dance, dress-up, conquer their bitchy adversaries, experience dramatic happennings, fall in love and end up with a hot guy - - all for keeping a pure heart.
The identification factor is on the heroine.
Finally, Sailor Eric chimed in and wrote:Probably because we relate to them or we aspire to be like them or what they have (romance! ...with a "prince"!)... It's just like how we are attracted to pop icons such as Kylie Minogue, Madonna, and Britney Spears.
Albert