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If you think this is a really personal question then don't answer.

Technically, I think I am. Some people say oral sex isn't sex. In a way, it's sex because it's sexual pleasure. But I really don't think doing it makes you a non-virgin.

If this thread is going to survive, everyone needs to remember to keep their responses reasonably clean, civil, and free of personal attacks. Thanks.

-Aaron

Technically, guys can't be "virgins".

Disney-Fan wrote:Technically, guys can't be "virgins".

Wha...?
Explain, please.

AwallaceUNC wrote:If this thread is going to survive, everyone needs to remember to keep their responses reasonably clean, civil, and free of personal attacks. Thanks.

-Aaron

I quite agree. I also think this thread has LOCK ME written all over it....

Actually At first I thought the spamming was back when I first saw this thread and the other one....

Guys can be virgins. Virgin to me is not havignsexual intercourse with another person. Personally, I don't count things like oral.

As for if I am...that's a sticky subject. I will say I'm not.

disneyboy20022 wrote:

AwallaceUNC wrote:If this thread is going to survive, everyone needs to remember to keep their responses reasonably clean, civil, and free of personal attacks. Thanks.

-Aaron

I quite agree. I also think this thread has LOCK ME written all over it....

Well, with all due respect, comments like those aren't really helping the atmosphere of the thread. I'm sure everyone here is mature enough to keep this clean. Let's just give this topic a chance.

I only lost my virginity (in the 'vaginal penetration' sense) last summer, at 19 years old. Yeah, it's a little later than the average age of "defloration," but I was never in a real rush to reach that milestone. My first time ended up being with someone I loved, so I can honestly say that I'm glad I waited.

SpringHeelJack wrote:Guys can be virgins. Virgin to me is not havignsexual intercourse with another person. Personally, I don't count things like oral.

Well, sexual intercourse can mean any type of sexual activity, whether it's vaginal, oral or anal. But, like you, I don't really count oral sex as a means of defloration. I don't really have my mind made up on anal yet.

numba1lostboy wrote:

Disney-Fan wrote:Technically, guys can't be "virgins".

Wha...?
Explain, please.

Hm, kinda hard to do since I'm not up to speck with medical terms in english.

well...I think that it means that we,guys, can`t be virgins because being virgin sometimes mean that the himen haven't been broken.

But if we speak technically, it wouldn't be virgins left on the world considering that it can broke even by a falldown or an accident, and some others are pretty flexible.

We are meaning here that if we have or haven't been involved in a sexual relation that includes prenetation(remember that there's more than one type of sex)

me...well...I still

Well, I'm 18 years old, and I can safely say that I've never been involved in any sexual activity of any kind, with any other person ... hence, I'm a virgin.

PS: It seems that a lot of teens (like me) watch a lot of pornography on the internet (a lot of my friends at school do it). When I was 13 (or 14?), I went on a site out of curiosity, didn't like it, and I'm proud to say that other than that brief period, I've never watched any porn. In my country, it's illegal anyway*.


*I know that porn is perfectly legal in other countries, but in Malta, it's against the law, at any age, even if you're 200 years old. Naturally, pornographic films are also banned (and you will never see any in a DVD rentals store).

The Tickler wrote:

SpringHeelJack wrote:Guys can be virgins. Virgin to me is not havignsexual intercourse with another person. Personally, I don't count things like oral.

Well, sexual intercourse can mean any type of sexual activity, whether it's vaginal, oral or anal. But, like you, I don't really count oral sex as a means of defloration. I don't really have my mind made up on anal yet.

True, that's what I was (lamely) trying to convey. As for anal...well, I'm gay, so that essentially covers that I view it as "legit sex".

I am a virgin as well currently.

hell to the no... i lost my virginity at 14, and I mean everything... not just oral

Well, with all due respect, comments like those aren't really helping the atmosphere of the thread. I'm sure everyone here is mature enough to keep this clean. Let's just give this topic a chance.

I sure hope your right... Not that I think that anyone here is immature about this topic and I DO think that this can stay clean.... Just that My question is that is a Disney Fan Site is the place to talk or discuss things like this..

Yep, I'm underage right now

Such a provoking topic we've chosen *chuckles*, I hate to prey in people's romance, so it's kinda hard to reply to the question, I'm not hiding secrects or anything..But I'm gon'na wait to answer when I'm good and ready.

I'm definitely not. In fact, it's been almost 22 years since I did it my first time. I was 19, she was 36, and boy, was it fun. I was like a kid in a candy store. For myself, I always felt I was overdue for losing it; I'd preferred to have gotten devirginized when I was around 14 or 15, but hey, 19's better than some.

Oh, and oral is definitely sex. It may not be "sexual intercourse," but it's definitely considered sexual activity. Mutual masturbation, breast play, and touching are generally considered "petting," or "foreplay," so while they may not be sexual acts themselves per se, they're definitely lead-ups to sex.

At 15 years old I have sex all the time. It’s just there is no one else there.










…….So yeha I’m a virgin.

Wow. Call me a prude. I mean, I'm married, so that answers your question, but what an inappropriate topic for a Disney site that has many under-18 members. I mean, if you only answer "yes" or "no" and don't give any insights, that's one thing. But I'm an adult and some of this makes me .