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Yes I am. None of that until I'm married and my wife and I are ready. It's only fair.

^^Same here...

JiminyCrick91 wrote:At 15 years old I have sex all the time. It’s just there is no one else there.

That's the funniest thing I've heard all day! Ahhhh - that brings me back.... being 15 was rough.

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19, and it wasn't even an enjoyable experience the first time. It got better though.

Ooooh, so many of us are shocked by this thread, but you just can't resist having a read....

OK, me? Yep, a 16 year old male virgin *polishes halo*. Boys my age are often pressured into thinking they have to do it. I haven't done it but I guess it's one of those things you've got to get out of the way eventually. Then I'll just get married and let it dwindle and die quietly.

blackcauldron85 wrote:what an inappropriate topic for a Disney site that has many under-18 members.

I fail to see why. I mean, usually, if you're old enough to be an active member of a news and discussion forum, you're old enough to know what sex is and what it means to be a virgin. If people were going into graphic detail about their past experiences, using terms you wouldn't even hear in an R rated film, then I'd understand your skepticism, but so far, I think it's been going pretty smoothly.

PapiBear wrote:Oh, and oral is definitely sex. It may not be "sexual intercourse," but it's definitely considered sexual activity.

That's not really what's being argued, though. Of course oral sex is sex (it's in the name, after all ), I just don't think it constitutes a way of losing your virginity. Many Christians use oral sex (and even anal sex, at times) as a way to receive sexual pleasure whilst remaining "pure."

I have a kid. And unless she's the next Jesus....

Siren wrote:I have a kid. And unless she's the next Jesus....

While this topic so far has been pretty tame (with a few slightly provocative comments), I've still gotta question its placement and creation on a Disney site. After all, does it really matter if someone's a virgin or not? And honestly, why would someone bother asking? Are people really *that* curious about their online friends?

Escapay

I'm a virgin. Plan to be until I get married.

Escapay wrote:While this topic so far has been pretty tame (with a few slightly provocative comments), I've still gotta question its placement and creation on a Disney site. After all, does it really matter if someone's a virgin or not? And honestly, why would someone bother asking? Are people really *that* curious about their online friends?

Don't you love stirring up our friendly, 'rated G' forum once in a while?

I mean, it's racier than would be normally thought, but as long as it's civil and not too...ah...detailed, I think, it's not a big deal to me.

But who wants to start the "Boxers or Briefs" topic?

Ha, interesting topic to read. I don't know if I'd count oral as losing your virginity Laz. Depends if you were giving, or receiving, and if you swallowed or spat. Okay, that's as provocative as I'll go........ for now. And yeah, same as Jiminy Crick91, as a 15 year old guy, have sex all the time, no one else is there to enjoy it with me though. Technically, a virgin, but I really don't want to be. Not really Christian, so I'll hopefully lose it before marriage (if the law gets passed ) I'll wait til Heath comes to me.
-James

Simple answer:

Yes. Despite the odds, I am a virgin. An ex of one of my friends attempted to rape her, myself, and four other girls once.

That being said, I do not want to enter a sexual relationship until marriage.

Prudence wrote:Simple answer:

Yes. Despite the odds, I am a virgin. An ex of one of my friends attempted to rape her, myself, and four other girls once.

That being said, I do not want to enter a sexual relationship until marriage.

I highly respect your wishes Prue. Glad you made out of the sitiuation safely.

Mason_Ireton wrote:

Prudence wrote:Simple answer:

Yes. Despite the odds, I am a virgin. An ex of one of my friends attempted to rape her, myself, and four other girls once.

That being said, I do not want to enter a sexual relationship until marriage.

I highly respect your wishes Prue. Glad you made out of the sitiuation safely.

I know you respect my wishes - that was one of the first things we established when we talked about our relationship! And of course, I'm glad to know that you care.

Oh god, wow, that must've been horrible Pru. As Mason said, glad that you made it out safely.
-James

James wrote:Oh god, wow, that must've been horrible Pru. As Mason said, glad that you made it out safely.
-James

Thanks. It was six against one, so that helped matters for the better. This took place at night on a camping trip. The boy thought we were asleep.

Prudence wrote:
I know you respect my wishes - that was one of the first things we established when we talked about our relationship! And of course, I'm glad to know that you care.

For a min, I thought we didn't talk bout this subject, so I was kinda nervous bout this subject *chuckles* I'm also glad to know you care bout me too, rather wait till we're good and ready, if that's fine with you which I know should be. I would like to ask you something when you come into the chat room please? if you can't make it then it's ok.

The Tickler wrote:

blackcauldron85 wrote:what an inappropriate topic for a Disney site that has many under-18 members.

I fail to see why. I mean, usually, if you're old enough to be an active member of a news and discussion forum, you're old enough to know what sex is and what it means to be a virgin. If people were going into graphic detail about their past experiences, using terms you wouldn't even hear in an R rated film, then I'd understand your skepticism, but so far, I think it's been going pretty smoothly.

thank you, some are acting as if this is a Precious Moments or Beanie Baby board.

6 against 1?! glad you girls had the upper hand Prue. It's nice to know you have protective friends at your side.

Pru: Can we talk in the chat please? it's kinda important.

I'm pleasantly surprised by everyone's mature responses.