I voted other, because I have no religious affiliation whatsoever. And I've never been to church (

). But my family has never been very religious, at all. Not even my grandparents were very religious, nor were my last-living grandfather's (passed away back in, I would say, '99) girlfriends (one of which married him in the very early '90s) very religious. That I know of. So that means I don't even know what my parents' religions are.
But look at me, talking as if any of this makes any difference whatsoever - almost every religion tries to tell all of you that gay people are evil just because of things they feel that they cannot change, so therefore if they fall in love =
sin. That's why I believe more than anything, that all religion is basically false, unless it deals with
actual love and recognizes psychology to be real. But I also don't do research on it - what good would that do? Once they know I'm gay, I get lectures that I don't deserve to hear. Why does tolerance always have to be political?
So I still see religion as something elitist, excluding, and just not necessary. Besides, I don't know anyone who has actually ever been comforted by religion. I don't doubt that it could happen, I know it happens and helps some people - but it's not necessary for all, or even most people, so that's why I feel it should be kept private and never used to make laws or to justify laws that deal with love and 2 people making a life together, whatever their choices and decisions are (and this of course pertains to children, home, and everything else - sexuality itself is not a choice - it's either an orientation or a disease, and it's only a disease when the person craves sex with a partner that isn't human or alive - it's
that simple; desiring someone underaged isn't a crime either, it's just a very bad decision, and non-plutonic love doesn't necessarily include sex, so the other person has the choice to wait for sex until their young partner grows up a little).
I basically decide religion is not necessary because people tell us all the time God chooses not to intervene, ever. Can we agree on that? Because that irrefutably explains a lot. And that doesn't mean God doesn't exist. But, it does mean that if he/she/it/they can't save lives, they can't destroy lives, bless us when we pray at night, recognize our unions (civil or otherwise), or take any mercy upon us whatsoever. This does not mean though that I'm some freak who actually believes we should remove Christmas from Kids' school calenders, banners, decorations, and lunch menus.
I'm just another totally average and normal person that many religions take advantage of, ignore, or don't understand. I actually have many issues with most religions. For instance, the idea that women were made in the image of men or that a woman's job is to only take care of her husband and kids, even to the point where she practically neglects and abuses herself, not leaving any time for herself. I do know people here are smart enough not to believe that themselves, but many preachers still preach that way, and the books they read from still say those things. What image does that present to children? Why do children need to be brought up to believe things they can't understand yet? And the pictures in these holy books, pictures of women and blacks practically depicted as slaves - again, a bad image for our society and children. Where do we think the Ku Klux Klan got all their ideas that blacks are subservient to whites from?
So many people say - read the book. Like the Bible has all the answers in it. Like any religious book has all life's answers in it. Nothing explains everything in life. And no book ever will. No life philosophy will ever explain everything. So religion acts as a sort of mop, to clean things up, organize thoughts in a somewhat sloppy, makeshift fashion. The book doesn't predict how we live our lives, it only takes a look at us and comments on what it sees. So why should we believe it knows everything? Especially given all the differences between the world now and then? Every preacher is just playing catchup to the times. We listen to so many holy people look around and claim this is a sin and this is not... But religion can't understand everything. Religion is just damage-control for a section of the population who don't like to figure things out on their own.
And remember, this isn't meant to offend anyone. Because I know no one here ever meant to offend me (well, actually...). It's just the point of view of someone who knows they are not a sinner. Because love is never a sin, even when it seems really strange. To some people. Everyone here has to admit though, religion raises a lot of questions that it can't answer. Life is sometimes nothing but questions.