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Isidour wrote:Legal rape?

chaychay102royal wrote:Fine, okay, I'm sorry! It just seems wrong to me! I'm a ignorant idiot!!! Happy now???

Believe it or not, I'm not rolling my eyes at you, but at the results I get whenever I insult myself (long, boring story here). I'm normally not this impulsive...just exhausted tonight.

I think the word "ignorant" is being taken in a much too negative context. After all, ignorance is bliss, right?

pinkrenata wrote:I think the word "ignorant" is being taken in a much too negative context. After all, ignorance is bliss, right?

It depends.

I personally hate being thought of as ignorant, only because I try to be as mature and wise as many adults. I obviously don't succeed sometimes. Don't take this personally, but in a way I feel like Rodney Dangerfield here: "I ain't get no respect."

What I mean by that is that sometimes--especially tonight--it seems like whatever I say some people say: "oh, isn't that cute--the child said this." I understand why you're saying this--you've had more life experiences, etc.--but at the same time I get a little frustrated by it. I want to be treated like everyone else on here. I don't see Timon being told to wait to post on a thread until 2011. Believe it or not, we're the same age.

I still respect you guys and I enjoy what you have to say. I don't mean to spark offense in anyone, I'm just honestly stating my opinion.

chaychay102royal wrote:

pinkrenata wrote:I think the word "ignorant" is being taken in a much too negative context. After all, ignorance is bliss, right?

It depends.

I personally hate being thought of as ignorant, only because I try to be as mature and wise as many adults. I obviously don't succeed sometimes. Don't take this personally, but in a way I feel like Rodney Dangerfield here: "I ain't get no respect."

Perhaps think of it more as <i>innocence</i> than ignorance. Does that sound any better to you?

yes,and is not all bad
I mean, an ignorant is not a stupid prson but one who had not the oportunity to know something or to learn about it.
Maybe I´m gonna make mad someone but kids are ignorant, they doesn´t know about economy or sex, or drugs or problems of live.They just know what we let them know.
For example, a little kid sometimes will be more atracted to a little ballon or a box instead to a big fancy toy or anything else.
The doesn´t know too much, an they´re happy.

Let´s put it this way, you stil have to learn some things Chaychay, but you have life enought to learn them

and...what des it mean the rolling eyes, or what does those mean?I know they´re not for me, but when you can use them?

Isidour wrote:yes,and is not all bad
I mean, an ignorant is not a stupid prson but one who had not the oportunity to know something or to learn about it.
Maybe I´m gonna make mad someone but kids are ignorant, they doesn´t know about economy or sex, or drugs or problems of live.They just know what we let them know.
For example, a little kid sometimes will be more atracted to a little ballon or a box instead to a big fancy toy or anything else.
The doesn´t know too much, an they´re happy.

Let´s put it this way, you stil have to learn some things Chaychay, but you have life enought to learn them

and...what des it mean the rolling eyes, or what does those mean?I know they´re not for me, but when you can use them?

I've had self-esteem issues (they're still very much around)and friends and family can easily can they've been witnesses in a long story of verbal self abuse that is nowhere near over.

The rolling of the eyes is something that still shows this self abuse--it's basically saying: "I disagree with you, and I'm frustrated by all these more kind than honest people telling me I'm not an idiot." In a way I agree with this, but in a way I disagree.

I swear, I need to see somebody like Dr. Phil to straighten out my messed up emotions. NOTE: This isn't a long desire for compliments or anything, but an honest answer to a question that isidour had. Please keep it this way.

chaychay102royal wrote:

pinkrenata wrote:I think the word "ignorant" is being taken in a much too negative context. After all, ignorance is bliss, right?

It depends.

I personally hate being thought of as ignorant, only because I try to be as mature and wise as many adults. I obviously don't succeed sometimes. Don't take this personally, but in a way I feel like Rodney Dangerfield here: "I ain't get no respect."

What I mean by that is that sometimes--especially tonight--it seems like whatever I say some people say: "oh, isn't that cute--the child said this." I understand why you're saying this--you've had more life experiences, etc.--but at the same time I get a little frustrated by it. I want to be treated like everyone else on here. I don't see Timon being told to wait to post on a thread until 2011. Believe it or not, we're the same age.

I still respect you guys and I enjoy what you have to say. I don't mean to spark offense in anyone, I'm just honestly stating my opinion.

I never say anything to offend you Chay Chay. I think that you are a great girl. Very intelligent for your age. Just keep up the good work. You have just not been out in the world much yet, and don't know all of the details.But that is nothing to be ashamed of or anything. You will learn them quick enough.

Thank you for the kind message, Disney Guru!

I really think that you're a smart person as well. Your love of Doris Day is certainly an interesting one, especially since I like her too, although I haven't seen much of her work.

Do yu mean a parent that said to you some words like "as$h0le" or worse, a parent that nevr loved you or even respect you, or he accepted you?
one who instead of sai"I´m prod of you"it said"Are you idot, you f***ing A$$**le?!"
belive me, at your age I had a very bad problem of self steem(I was on the gym and I could lift a lot of weight for my ge, but I still felt like Shi...I mean..crap)
I was many times very close to comite suicide, and I was 14 years old only.
Maybe you have a low self-steem because someting that everyone else say, but who cares about them?
Are you good for you?yes?then congratulations;No? then what do you have to chang to be proud of yourself?
I´m not mad or even angry(if I´m showing it like it forgive me) but I´m just trying to help you
and you don´t need a Dr.Phi or something(too expensive,man) you jut need a hughy
n_n
really, try it and try to know why do you have a low self-esteem

I heard that Resident Evil is bloody. Eww. Even the video games are bloody. I'll pass Resident Evil.

Isidour wrote:Do yu mean a parent that said to you some words like "as$h0le" or worse, a parent that nevr loved you or even respect you, or he accepted you?
one who instead of sai"I´m prod of you"it said"Are you idot, you f***ing A$$**le?!"
belive me, at your age I had a very bad problem of self steem(I was on the gym and I could lift a lot of weight for my ge, but I still felt like Shi...I mean..crap)
I was many times very close to comite suicide, and I was 14 years old only.
Maybe you have a low self-steem because someting that everyone else say, but who cares about them?
Are you good for you?yes?then congratulations;No? then what do you have to chang to be proud of yourself?
I´m not mad or even angry(if I´m showing it like it forgive me) but I´m just trying to help you
and you don´t need a Dr.Phi or something(too expensive,man) you jut need a hughy
n_n
really, try it and try to know why do you have a low self-esteem

I've thought about it, and I do have some slightly harmful memories of third grade terrorists (KID: "Chay, I really like you. You're a good friend." CHAY: Really? KID: Opposite day! (kid laughs)). However, I do have great parents and good friends so I don't know what is exactly wrong with me. I get hugs, I get love--I'm still stubborn in my confusing emotional life.

3 questions:

1.-What´s a "Opposite day"?
2.-YOu´re a girl?
3.-That´s it?!

wow...-i realy dn´t get you, I thougth you´re talking about something more serious.

And by the way, Resident Evil being bloody is what make it better,
More blood=more fun
Bring me the blood!!!

chaychay -

Oh, I can tell you about verbal abuse, believe me, especially from when I was around your age. I didn't have any friends back then to speak of and Disney was one of my escapes.

You seem to be holding up well and I commend you for it.

Please don't take this the wrong way, but you seem very sensitve at times. Not nessecarily a bad thing, I was like that too. I still am, to a certain extent. It's good to be sensitive, it's part of what makes us who we are. But watch out for that defensiveness. . . it's important to be defensive but too much can cause you heartache as it'll come back to haunt ya. LIke I said, please don't take this the wrong way; I'n only saying this because I know from experience.

Take care.

EDIT:

I also want to add that it's important to keep in mind that many adults feel uncomfortable about discussing any types of sexual issues with a minor outside of their own family, and I think that's understandable for many reasons.

Sunset Girl wrote:chaychay -

Oh, I can tell you about verbal abuse, believe me, especially from when I was around your age. I didn't have any friends back then to speak of and Disney was one of my escapes.

You seem to be holding up well and I commend you for it.

Please don't take this the wrong way, but you seem very sensitve at times. Not nessecarily a bad thing, I was like that too. I still am, to a certain extent. It's good to be sensitive, it's part of what makes us who we are. But watch out for that defensiveness. . . it's important to be defensive but too much can cause you heartache as it'll come back to haunt ya. LIke I said, please don't take this the wrong way; I'n only saying this because I know from experience.

Take care.

EDIT:

I also want to add that it's important to keep in mind that many adults feel uncomfortable about discussing any types of sexual issues with a minor outside of their own family, and I think that's understandable for many reasons.

Hi,

Also many parents never teach their kids about sexual issues. But as Lana Turner said in the movie Peyton Place: "If they don't learn it at home, where are they going to learn about it, in parked cars?"
It is a subject that parents need to teach their children, when they feel that their children are old enough to hear, and comprehend it.

Disney Guru wrote: Hi,

Also many parents never teach their kids about sexual issues. But as Lana Turner said in the movie Peyton Place: "If they don't learn it at home, where are they going to learn about it, in parked cars?"
It is a subject that parents need to teach their children, when they feel that their children are old enough to hear, and comprehend it.

As I've implied elsewhere, that's something I totally agree with. If people could let go of their hang-ups and have some frank and shameless discussions, a lot of the heartaches of the world could be saved.

Amen!

MAny parents feel ashamed because is a social taboo,but really, talking about sex is not bad.
For the one who thinks is a dirty thing: what God creates is not bad, and remember that sex is agift form Him to all humans(that we open that present before time an a lot of times is another business)

Instead of telling our children ...O_o...your children(I´m father of none) that sex is bad, we must show them that is not bad, just that some people give it a wrong use.
Remember that knowledge is power

Isidour wrote:3 questions:

1.-What´s a "Opposite day"?
2.-YOu´re a girl?
3.-That´s it?!

wow...-i realy dn´t get you, I thougth you´re talking about something more serious.

And by the way, Resident Evil being bloody is what make it better,
More blood=more fun
Bring me the blood!!!

1. Opposite day is a childish idea that went rampant in my elementary school for about two years. It's when you say something, but you mean the opposite of it. For example if I were to say "I hate the piano" on an opposite day, I would mean "I love the piano." Really stupid...
2. Yep.
3. Yeah...sorry...

Also, because of a lot of comments against my being here (which I don't take offense at), I'm going to stop posting on this thread. Thank you.

I've seen almost 1,000 R-rated movies. Maybe more.

ignorant = Unaware or uninformed
stupid = Slow to learn or understand; obtuse

Ignorant is not an insult. Stupid is an insult.

Mr. Toad wrote:ignorant = Unaware or uninformed
stupid = Slow to learn or understand; obtuse

Ignorant is not an insult. Stupid is an insult.

I couldn't agree with you more!