slave2moonlight wrote:PapiBear wrote: I see. So, the opinions of Black men and Black women (because Black women are also offended by this film's script, as I will share with you shortly) are illegitimate and amount to nothing more than "crying wolf." Hmm.
Your attacks so largely consist of taking my statements out of context and putting words in my mouth that are clearly not what I have said. It's not a very strong debating style. First of all, I don't buy the idea that every black person agrees with you and is offended by the plot of this film. That would be a pretty big assumption.
I didn't say that EVERY Black person agreed with me. Yes, stating such
would be a big assumption. But I didn't state that. I said that Black men and Black women were offended. Not just a few of them, either. You made the assumption that I was claiming that every Black person agreed with me.
slave2moonlight wrote:And I never said that "the opinions of black men and women are illegitimate and are nothing more than crying wolf." However, I do feel that people sometimes do cry wolf, and I believe that happens a lot with racial issues today.
We're not talking about "a lot of racial issues," we're talking about this film, and its reception within the Black community. Please don't try and obfuscate this by referring to various and sundry unrelated situations.
slave2moonlight wrote:PapiBear wrote:So, which specific reason would the average Black person have to be offended by this story?
Someone offends someone else, and the offended party says "I find that offensive," but the offending party says "you're just looking for attention, power, and sympathy, so I don't have to listen to you." The offended party says "I'm still offended." The offending party says "So what? You don't matter. I'm going to do what offends you anyway, because I like it. And I'm more important than you, and I'm better than you, and I'm in greater numbers than you! So get over it!"
Are you serious? We can't have a society where an individual's opinion on what is or is not "offensive" sets the law of the land.
I didn't say anything about "the law of the land." This isn't about any squelching of your 1st Amendment right to say whatever you like, no matter who you hurt.
I maintain that you are not really hearing me. You're reading the words, but you're not even trying to understand.
slave2moonlight wrote:We'd have no art, books, films,.. we'd have nothing! It simply doesn't work.
Wow, really? So, your culture's artistic endeavours depend upon the denigration of other peoples and cultures? And to say "this is offensive to me and disrespectful to my people" is to upset your entire cultural balance? What kind of culture do you have when it requires you to offend others without remorse?
slave2moonlight wrote:This is the big PC problem we have in the U.S. today. We have to use common sense on these things. Some people find nearly everything offensive.
Sure, some people do, but when ordinary people find something offensive, is it actually offensive, or are they just imagining it? See, you don't get to pick and choose what's offensive for someone else. If someone tells you that you've offended them, do you stand around arguing with them and telling them they're imagining things, or do you apologize and try to understand what it was you did that offended them, so you can refrain from making the same mistake in the future?
slave2moonlight wrote:PapiBear wrote: Yeah, y'know? It's such a shame. Back in the good old days, them minority folks knew their place, and we could be offensive toward them and not think twice about it. But now we do, and boy, is it a pain to deal with. I wish it was the old days, ma. We had it good then. Nobody complained about anything we did. We just did what we did and said what we said, and if somebody didn't like it, they kept their mouths shut. And life was good for us because of that.
I hope you realize how ridiculous you're making yourself sound...
I'm only reflecting back to you how you're coming across.
slave2moonlight wrote:PapiBear wrote: A film that supposedly takes place in early 20th century New Orleans, where an interracial couple was a couple that was soon put in jail if not murdered. It's not a story of a 21st century interracial couple hanging out at Starbucks and pondering their futures while sipping Frappuccinos and listening to their iPods and text messaging their diverse group of friends on their Razrs.
But, you know, like you've made clear, the opinions of Black folk don't really matter to you, so you don't need to worry your pretty little head about it now, y'hear?
*sigh* I repeat my previous statement. I hope you realize how ridiculous you're making yourself sound.
Ah, yes, of course. Sidestep the question entirely. Don't deal with the issue, worry more about me. Tell me I'm the problem instead. Yes, much better tactic.
slave2moonlight wrote:PapiBear wrote:Have you ever, in your life, been overlooked and ignored? Seriously, have you? Because if you haven't, then you won't be able to understand what it's like. If you have, then why are you asking this question?
I'm sure most people have felt that at some point. I definitely have. I live in a hispanic community and am half hispanic and half white. I have yet to find a community I am really welcomed into. There's still no reason to be offended by a mixed race couple in a film. I'm sorry. Nothing but racism can fuel that.
Did you see the part where I said that I don't have any problem with interracial relationships, and that I even promote them? Did you? I mean, really,
did you read that part? Because I don't think it sank in.
The issue - AGAIN - is not whether interracial relationships are good or bad. The issue is how Black children view themselves in the world, and media's role in developing children's self-image. You're completely unaware of this, and completely unsympathetic to it.
Take a look at this film,
"A Girl Like Me", from 17 year old filmmaker Kiri Davis. This speaks to the very issue I'm talking about.
slave2moonlight wrote:PapiBear wrote: You're not hearing me. As I stated before, I have absolutely no problems with real life interracial relationships, and have been in several most of my adult life. Interracial dating is not the issue. The issue is the story and character choices being made by Disney for what is, as they are advertising, their first attempt to tell an African American story.
Within the context of this African American story (a historical fantasy piece, if you will), there is a Black princess, but no Black prince. Why? There's a Black male villain. Ohhhhhh..... I guess that's OK, to have a Black man be a villain. But not a prince. Oh, no, never a prince.
What's the message you're sending when you do that? That a little Black girl can be a princess - but only if she marries a handsome white prince - and that a little Black boy can't be a prince - only a bad guy.
Yet one more attack on Black malehood and upon young Black boys. One more thing that will instill self-hatred. One more thing to groom them for prison fodder. Don't tell me this isn't happening. I see it happening in my community, in my state (same as yours), and nationwide.
Do you understand the power of media? Do you understand what media does and can do to young minds?
Don't be dismissive of this, please.
Oh, I'm hearing you loud and clear. And, believe me, I'm usually the last one defending the media. But the statements above come from a mindset that sees everything as an attack. After all, why can't a black princess marry a white prince? That makes a stronger statement about racial equality to me than a black princess and a black prince, and I believe that was more likely what the filmmakers were thinking. What you don't understand is that I (and I think most of the media) feel we should be erasing those racial lines. It's one thing to have pride in your racial history, but we need to stop seeing ourselves as separated by race in today's society. And so the film takes place in the 20's. It's a fairytale. With people turning into frogs, it's already not historically accurate.
As for things like this grooming young boys for prison fodder, that is something I don't buy into. I'm sorry, but I don't see the lack of a black prince in a Disney cartoon as one of the causes of children becoming criminals. It would be nice if Disney films were more diverse, but this should be seen as a solid first step.
I'm talking to a wall. You clearly have no idea what I'm talking about, because you're not a part of the community I'm in. Worse, you're not even making an effort to understand the viewpoint. You're too busy parroting the colorblind party line.
slave2moonlight wrote:PapiBear wrote:
What we should do and what we actually do are two different things.
Yes, but if we don't start taking the right attitude up on an individual basis, we'll never get there as a group.
You know, as long as human beings continue to speak different languages, we'll also get nowhere as a group. Should we have just one world language and eliminate all the others? What about religion? What about political parties? Just one size fits all, for the world? (Don't bother answering. I know you won't understand this at all.)
slave2moonlight wrote:PapiBear wrote: Instead of being all enamored of We-Are-The-World colorblind fantasies, I'm dealing with the real world and what's really going on in young Black minds (and in young minds of other colors as well - don't think that your kids won't get subliminal messages from this film as well). That's my concern - what we're telling our kids, all our kids, with this kind of story.
Living in the real world, I agree with that (maybe not the subliminal messages part). But I don't think getting angry about a mixed-race couple makes sense.
I'm not "angry about a mixed-race couple." I said that I don't think that it's the smart move for Disney to make for their first effort at telling an African American tale, and I explained my reasons for this, which you've very conveniently ignored. I believe that Disney is sending dangerous messages to not only Black children, but to all children, by going about this the way they are. This is not a simplistic matter of stating whether interracial relationships are bad or good. Disney is hesitant, perhaps even loathe, to portray Black love. Why? They've never been hesitant or loathe to portray white love, Arabic love, or Asian love.
It's clear to me that Black children's self-image is less important to you than your own personal entertainment. As long as you're entertained, who cares what damage is done to Black children, right?
slave2moonlight wrote:PapiBear wrote: Again, it's not that I have a problem with Disney portraying an interracial romance. I don't.
Could have fooled me. That's what we've been discussing this whole time.
No, that's what you've been talking about. Next time, read what's written. You talk to me about finding racism in everything, but look what you're doing. You're being defensive because you think I'm attacking interracial relationships, because you're the product of one. Understandable position to take if that's what I was doing, but I'm not. This isn't about you.
slave2moonlight wrote:PapiBear wrote:I have a problem with them portraying that as their first African American story. Because then it's not an African American story, it's an interracial story.
This sounds like nit-picking to me. I haven't heard it called an African American story, I've only heard it called their first African American princess. However, it's possible I just didn't read some of the stuff you have read. Even still, the lead character is African American, so what's wrong with calling it an African American story? It's an African American's story, no matter what sort of relationship she gets involved in, so I can see them calling it an African American story. As long as they're not advertising it as Disney's first African American Couple, or African American Romance, or something like that. We can't deny this princess's African American heritage just because she ends up with a white prince, after all.
Yeah, God forbid Disney should actually have an African American Couple and depict an African American Romance. That would just be intolerable. Especially for the first Disney movie to feature an African American lead character.
You know, last year's
Something New wasn't much of a hit with Black audiences. Ever stopped to read any of the opinions on it from Black America? Ever cared what Black folks thought of it? I doubt it.
slave2moonlight wrote:PapiBear wrote: You never answered my question: Why couldn't the African American girl meet up with a handsome African prince, where they really do have princes and princesses and kings and queens, and have had such for centuries?
It's no different than asking, "Why can't she be with a white prince?"
Actually it's very different, because Disney's NEVER HAD A BLACK PRINCE FOR ANY OF ITS PRINCESSES BEFORE, so there's nothing else to compare it to. Why won't they give their first Black princess a Black prince? They gave every single one of their white princesses a white prince. What are they afraid of?
If Disney wants to play the diversity game with its animated princesses, let them do it with one of their white princesses first. Pair a white princess up with a Black prince. Think that'd go over well in Peoria? You know there'd be an outcry.
Black people are not lab rats for white people to perform experiments on, social, cinematic, or otherwise.
slave2moonlight wrote:We are striving for a society where our children don't see each other by color.
What do you mean "we"? Not everyone is striving for this. There's a big difference between not discriminating against others based on ethnicity or race and recognizing ethnic and cultural differences, respecting them, and appreciating them. You're not going to achieve racial harmony when you force others to toe a colorblind line where racial and ethnic differences supposedly don't exist because you claim they're not there, even when they are there.
slave2moonlight wrote:I believe that's what they are trying to do with this film. Television has been trying to use this tactic for years now on kids' programming to fight racism, and I believe it has had some positive effects, however small. Believe me, I don't think the racist white folks of the world are going to be happier with the film because she marries a white prince. They would probably like that even less.
You're making this film sound like an experiment in social engineering rather than a fairy tale. Also, you're basically saying that it's okay that there are all these white princesses with white princes, and an Arabic princess with an Arabic prince, and a Chinese princess with a Chinese prince - those are all A-OK. But when it's time for a Black princess, oh wait, we can't pair her up with a Black prince - one of her own - suddenly now we have to be all diverse and colorblind and - hey, let's pair her up with a white prince!
You. Are. Not. Listening.
Black people, like all people, want to see themselves reflected in stories, films, plays, TV shows, etc. That's not happening with this story. We're getting an imbalanced, skewed, one-sided story. A partial, distorted reflection. And you're defending that.
slave2moonlight wrote:PapiBear wrote: Why does there always have to be a white character involved? Why can't it be an exclusively Black cast of characters? Plenty of other Disney films have had exclusively white casts of characters. Why is that okay and an exclusively Black cast isn't?
You know why.
Yes, because that was the past,
Which is when the story takes place.
slave2moonlight wrote:and we are trying to move past that.
We are? We're trying to move past the past by pretending the past is the present? Or does time have no meaning in Disney animation all of a sudden? If so, I want a non-linear Disney animated film, like
Pulp Fiction.
slave2moonlight wrote:Not to mention the fact that New Orleans has a mix of different races. If an all-white cast seems racist, can't you see that an all black cast is no different?
So the all-white casts can stay, but the all-Black cast has to go? I'm betting you won't like
The Wiz,
The Color Purple, or a lot of other films and plays with all-Black casts then, for the same reason.
Face it, you don't care about Black people.